@thedictionarydiva: there’s a word for the smile you are forced to smile and order to stay employed! Samuel Johnson defined “fleer“ as “the deceitful grin of civility,“ which quite possibly is the most accurate description of the “customer service smile” ever written. The OED also gives another definition; A mocking look, sneer or gibe. So just like you, the word “fleer” is working two jobs just to get by. It’s the smile you give to the customer while they’re in front of you, and the look you give your coworker when they finally leave! (Apologies for any retail induced trauma-dumping I may have done in this video) #edutokcontest #TikTokLearningCampaign #dictionary #weirdwords #vocabulary

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krisperry53
☠️kristAAAAAn☠️ :
I declare fleer the opposite of smize
2026-07-15 22:12:13
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mawwwthuh
Martita :
Obsolete, my ass. -sincerely, a luxury hotel worker 😭
2026-07-17 02:20:50
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tiffdidanart
TiffDidAnArt :
“The deceitful grin of civility” what a bar
2026-07-16 23:51:40
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samanthakimmel
Samantha :
friendly sneer=fleer
2026-07-16 19:44:14
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sweetz79
MB :
immediately my brain went... friendly + sneer = fleer. I'm glad the math checks out 👍
2026-07-16 09:07:49
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goblinmama13
Calista Blaylock :
Ooooo you have Ye Olde Urbane Dictionary
2026-07-16 11:59:19
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youll_really_never_know
YoullReallyNeverKnow :
oooh, I be fleering everyday
2026-07-15 22:30:40
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whatdoyougotus
What Do You Got - US :
When I am Filipendulous, my fleer comes out. 😎😎😎
2026-07-15 22:50:43
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written.truth.poems
written.truth.poems :
I call it a coat hanger smile.
2026-07-15 21:50:15
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denecrux2
Denecrux :
“Polite because there are witnesses” yep, nailed it
2026-07-16 04:43:02
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tinyfeistygay
renna :
ah yes. the smile i gave after a customer screamed in my ear for handing her dog a treat wrong. (not the wrong treat. it was one she brought in. she was mad at my hand positioning. 🫠)
2026-07-16 01:24:48
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well...gwarsh
giggle.fox❀⋆.ೃ࿔*:・𖦹ׂ ₊˚⊹⋆: :
reminds me of officespace flair sceene 🤭
2026-07-15 23:04:23
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mesotardigrade1564
Ash_meso :
The smile I wore while trying to explain to a 30-something mom that “no a hamster is not a good pet for your 3 year old, no a guinea pig is not a good pet for your 3 year old, yes you would have to take care of it, it can not be the 3 YEAR OLD’S job to take care of a hamster or guinea pig.” while actively repeating in my mind that I can scream at customers or tell them they are an idiot.
2026-07-16 19:27:24
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mewtia11
MewTia :
Fleer sounds like a modern slang someone made up that went viral, just like yeet
2026-07-16 05:24:04
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momecook
Molly :
I felt your tiny mouth twitch in my soul when you were talking about the brides. 😅
2026-07-16 21:47:19
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hopemurchisonfinc
hopemurchisonfinc :
The one women use to protect against creepy men
2026-07-16 03:14:02
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siobansny
Siobansny :
Now I’m wondering if fleer is a portmanteau of some fl- word with sneer, but I can’t think of anything that matches
2026-07-16 02:06:10
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lyncoln91qt
Lyncoln :
I love your content
2026-07-16 16:07:30
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sweetbutterflyboutique1
Sweet Butterfly Boutique :
that's exactly the smile i wore tonight at my fast food job when I called a customer out on their lies trying to get discounts they don't qualify for 😂😂😂
2026-07-16 09:41:55
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therealqixotica
Qixotica :
I freaking love it! Side note: I have a powerful need for that dictionary. Where might I acquire a facsimile?
2026-07-16 01:06:37
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danigrl034
danigrl034 🇺🇲 :
a fleer paired with a dry sarcastic comment and a sip of coffee are my trademarks. picture it 😁 buhhbye now! Have a GREAT day! ☕️
2026-07-15 23:11:36
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syfy.fangirl
syfy.fangirl :
Thank you for giving me a new word, fleer sounds better than saying “ the smile of the soulless being that still haunts my dreams from 16 years of retail.” And I stopped retail 3 years ago.
2026-07-16 04:04:10
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blatzuck
Blatzy :
I really enjoy these. Wish you had a word of the day calendar. 🖤
2026-07-17 00:07:53
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vak.vyasi
🥔🌬Vak.Vyasi➰️🪷 :
*because there are witnesses* sent me😂
2026-07-16 20:49:10
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riannekeerickson
RiannekeTHEYTHEM :
the mask neurodivergent people are forced to use
2026-07-16 21:24:03
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