Queen squidward
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Thursday 16 July 2026 01:14:40 GMT
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liv𝜗𝜚 :
anxious people LOVEEE to demonize avoidant people but they’re JUST as bad😭😭😭!!!
2026-07-16 20:02:53
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andie :
“do you hate me? do you hate me?” NOW I DO
2026-07-16 23:49:14
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makmariela :
“did you eat?” five times a day is giving infantilization like you think i can’t feed myself
2026-07-16 13:07:38
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Rory VanEpps :
it's a self fulfilling prophecy. You bother people until ARE mad at you
2026-07-16 16:58:08
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Credits.end :
It’s like someone telling you to “Calm down” when you’ve been calm
2026-07-16 22:35:25
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✝️☦️🛐🕉️🔯☪️☯️🪯☸️🕎 :
and they don’t even care fr😭it's just to make themselves feel better
2026-07-17 04:12:48
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ladybug 🐞 :
it’s so fucking annoying
2026-07-16 17:22:58
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🪱Alex🪱 :
Anxious attachment as bad as avoidant. Both HELLA extreme just in opposite sides bro and nobody want to take that😭
2026-07-16 20:43:32
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ྀི :
u just described hell to me
2026-07-17 05:35:07
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faith ⚭ :
“just say you hate me” ykw yeah i do.
2026-07-17 08:13:39
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simmy1376 :
My ex co worker. It was so fucking annoying
2026-07-19 14:13:31
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zeepzop :
i knew someone who would ask “are you safe” literally every time we hung out??? WHAT TF DOES THAT EVEN MEAN I STILL DONT KNOW
2026-07-16 05:50:50
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「 papa 」 :
And then the person that’s asking acts like your the problem when you get annoyed 😭💔
2026-07-19 13:40:49
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Gabby Mercado :
Anxious attachment ppl it’s tiring
2026-07-16 11:30:14
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MabsLar :
avoidants and anxious people need to get themselves sorted out first before getting into a relationship because both of those aren't something people should want to be or experience.
2026-07-19 13:49:17
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Madeline 🫖 🪞 🕊️ 🤍 :
emotionally intelligent queen
2026-07-16 13:21:43
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Toya M. :
I’m definitely on the right side of TikTok. I hear everything negative about avoidants but needing CONSTANT reassurance is not healthy either! 😩 Dealing with an anxious attached person can be so draining!
2026-07-16 20:11:17
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💐Vie💐 :
Wait that’s me…
2026-07-19 13:09:33
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butt :
not only is it annoying, but it makes you feel like your words mean nothing to that person. if i tell you that i’m okay 50 times a night and you’re still asking me the same question, does that mean you just don’t believe that im telling you the truth? is there anything i can say that WOULD make you feel reassured since every time i try hasn’t been enough apparently? and the answer is probably no if they’re doing this regularly in the first place.
2026-07-16 19:02:13
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Rowan Lev :
it's also kinda insulting like why don't you trust me when I say I love you over and over? hurts to constantly accused of being a liar when you just want to tell someone you love them
2026-07-16 18:23:40
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queer coded villain(they/them) :
my spouse used to think I was mad whenever I was overly quiet since I'm so talkative. I told him one day, "it's on me to tell you if I'm not okay, not on you to check." I'm so glad he took it to heart
2026-07-16 17:31:40
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Lola mma :
they’re energy vampires bro
2026-07-16 08:39:48
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crispdollar84 :
"Do you hate me?" I'm starting to😭
2026-07-17 05:24:46
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𝘐𝘳𝘪𝘴⋆˚꩜｡⁴² :
i think tiktok has ruined the whole "avoidant and anxious" styles because you don't WANT to be either. both are bad, and both need work. they are therapy terms and should stay that way. I agree with this video.
2026-07-17 00:04:44
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InfinityTotally :
I will not get close with this type of person for this exact reason 😭 1. Why do you think I hate you? 2. Why would I be friends with someone I don’t like? 3. Why don’t you trust me like I trust you?
2026-07-16 19:08:54
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