Afraid of being on their own is it!!!! I was single for 5 years after a 3 year relationship. Others that became single around the same time dated and broke up with or gotten broken up with so many people in the time I was still single for. 5 years later I found some one and got married; it’s been 7 years. Those people are still single.
2026-07-16 01:59:10
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user122882 :
This is one video I don’t agree with. It’s very black/white and the approach sounds like it’s coming from judgment not care. If you don’t think your friends have standards and you think their lives are boring why are you friends with them? What does that say about your standards? Also why don’t you just ask them instead of talking poorly about them online?
2026-07-25 07:41:20
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Jaime Lee :
I absolutely love you for this because young girls need to hear this. I wish that we had the capability to hear this when I was a young girl from other people other than our moms because we tend to not listen to our moms right we need positive women influences out here on our children. It makes me so sad. I wish that somebody told me these things when I was a young girl so I didn’t put up with bullshit and become a domestic violence survivor so irritating.
2026-07-25 23:56:53
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Victoria Lynn :
As someone who used to do this, it was because I needed attention. I was taught that having attention from men gave you value.
2026-07-23 13:14:09
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Andy :
Love this video and sorry this is unrelated but I need to know your lip combo!!?
2026-07-16 04:04:45
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Zayd :
People are always saying their friend is “dating below her level,” but that only makes sense if you assume she’s automatically the prize. Maybe she isn’t settling at all. Maybe she just wants something different. Not everyone is looking for the same qualities in a partner. Some people like stability, others are attracted to excitement or unpredictability, even when it’s messy. Attraction isn’t something you can rank on a checklist. And if you have to keep reminding everyone what you bring to the table, maybe it speaks more to insecurity than confidence. People who are genuinely confident usually don’t need to convince anyone of their worth.
2026-07-20 16:01:45
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Lilly Arte 💫💕 :
I always ask the same question to myself!
2026-07-21 13:46:59
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Anaturalhairstorey- Donnie :
I use to be able to do it but now I’m over the surface level connection and toxicity.
2026-07-22 04:01:38
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Pebble and Pine Kids Yukon :
You got it! And they are praised for “finding someone” rather than being single and happy because society shames single women!
2026-07-22 03:42:26
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Alice :) :
This is something I find so validating to hear. The amount of times I’ve heard “just give him a chance.” Dude no that’s just not just a waste of my time but also his
2026-07-23 02:32:34
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Lilly Arte 💫💕 :
Exactly !!!!
2026-07-21 13:46:39
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