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alana 😇 :
How do I fix this genuinely this is ruining my life
2026-07-24 05:50:37
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user19383626189399938371 :
i used to be anxious but now i’m avoidant. i want space, i want time to myself. i want to be able to just exist without someone constantly following me, needing attention, or bothering me.
2026-07-26 05:18:49
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Briana Chapman :
Yea and we just broke up because he couldn’t handle it . He would rather run and hide then face life or the consequences of his actions
2026-07-17 04:04:12
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annnmarieeeee :
as someone with an anxious attachment currently working it out with a therapist, i always end up with avoidants and it’s not fair, why is ghosting and running away so normalized
2026-07-18 23:01:35
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𝓗𝓐𝓝𝓝𝓐𝓗, 𝓡𝓝 :
true, the ones i loved the most were the ones i pushed away the hardest
2026-07-20 02:35:46
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𝑦𝑎𝑟𝑒𝑛𝑖🤍 :
i just wanna stop this urge to find excuses to not be with someone
2026-07-29 07:46:55
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Morrigan☯️ :
To all the people struggling with an avoidant, I used to be one, then I fell in love with one and that when I truly started to understand what it was. Him and I struggled and even split up because of this. Even though I was hurt, I still offered him a safe space with me, whenever HE was ready, while also leaving some space between us for myself, because obviously I needed to heal myself before being a therapist to the cause of my pain. He saw my safeness while also seeing my independence and fortunately was able to see the error of his ways. The trick is to not beg for their attention. It makes them believe that the less affection they show you, the more affection they get out of it. You truly do have to put yourself first. TRULY. Not just so that they’ll notice. Do it for YOU, not just for show. He ended up begging me to come back for days, and even then I wasn’t ready to just let him come back with no consequences. He had to prove to me that he was worth my time and effort again. Now we’re both in the healthiest relationship either of us have ever been in. We communicate flawlessly and we live together now. I wouldn’t change anything about our unorthodox and rocky start, because now I feel like we truly understand every part about each other. By no means am I saying “be a bird.” Don’t go back to someone who consistently shows you no love and no care, because no one’s deserves that. Instead, show your avoidant that they can be an intimate and safe person while maintaining their independence by example. I’m no professional though, just sharing my experiences with anyone who may need the insight.
2026-08-04 11:07:39
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ayye_gillie :
I KNEW THAT DOOR HAD A LOCK ON IT.
2026-07-22 22:46:52
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✨ summer ✨ :
I’m so self aware of this , and I try to fight it when my feelings get involved, but I can’t help to still sabotage and come up with every reason to take a step back from someone. Then once tha feeling of doom wares off && I feel safe and in control of myself again , I always wanna reach out and talk about it smh .
2026-08-03 15:23:27
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escarletaaa :
this is ruining my life
2026-08-02 10:12:34
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𝐋𝐢𝐥𝐥𝐢𝐚𝐧 𝐌𝐨𝐞𝐭𝐭🩰🕸️ :
I had to cut him off …… my body was feeling things .
2026-07-20 16:13:57
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gabby flores :
this, but i find myself recognizing the loss of independence and sitting in it and just being completely dependent and not taking care of myself. then with distance i’m back to normal.
2026-07-28 20:01:35
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x.quetzalcoatl.x :
Sometimes I hate being me
2026-07-25 02:24:48
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💋 :
I’ve gotten to the point of having a full blown panic attack
2026-08-01 08:22:07
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pro_noob3 :
I am 20 and single but this is also happens with friends too not just someone I’m trying to love
2026-07-31 23:11:19
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🅿️resident :
pretty sure its over for good now
2026-07-20 16:27:16
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️ :
Leave me aloneeeeeee
2026-07-21 04:37:43
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bieber :
idk if he’s avoidant or just avoidING LMAO. straight up told me “you’re beautiful, you’re perfect, we would be perfect for each other, you’re the best connection i have, i see our chemistry, the smile and light you bring into every room .. but even if we were the last two people on earth, i would still never be with you”
2026-07-29 05:33:34
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:
i wanna depend on someone so bad it hurts but i’m terrified bro i don’t know what to do
2026-08-01 11:17:11
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Sage💥 :
finally. Someone with a real explanation😭 my therapist broke this down ages ago and im sure there are self helps on youtube explaining it. People just don’t do their research. Love literally feels like a ball and chain no matter how much we want it
2026-08-03 13:07:18
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Harrison :
I fixed it it’s all about your inner child
2026-07-19 21:11:28
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Jerm :
This feeling has me convinced I just wanna be alone and free but i never know if that’s what I really want 💔
2026-07-26 01:24:49
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