Melissa Byrne 🐝
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Just Another Potato 🥔 :
Often times girls/women who were sexually abused can become hyper sexual as teens/young adults. Boys/men who were sexually abused often times become abusers or aggressive/abusive. This comment will probably be flagged.
2026-07-16 12:48:38
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Plants and Paws :
It was the first currency I was taught to trade with - sex for "love/validation", and it was a quick and fast earner. It took me such a long time to deconstruct that!
2026-07-16 12:35:30
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Mango4the win 🏳️⚧️🇵🇸🏳️🌈 :
It's often about trying to regain control over our experience of sex. it is a very seemingly bizzare side effect, but its very common xx
2026-07-17 02:10:04
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s o p h i e 🐢 :
sex was the only way I could feel in control after being SAd multiple times, it’s made me feel so much shame
2026-07-16 15:41:34
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No matter what kind of trauma the consequences of it in most cases don’t really make sense.. not even to the victims themselves which I think is also one of the reasons they struggle to acknowledge what happened
2026-07-16 15:09:47
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Mrs Amy D 🍉 🐅 🧁🇦🇺 :
From my experience, when I turned 18 I became extremely hypersexual. I had sex with whoever, whenever, with many men for about 3-4years. Looking back on it, the sex meant absolutely nothing. It wasn't until I met my Husband when I was 28 for me to realise sex with someone I loved felt so different. I went through a complete personality shift, guilt, sadness anger..... for me to be ok with having sex with my future husband. Also the fact he completely understood and accepted what I was going through made it all the more emotional.
2026-07-16 18:48:50
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lunamush :
I always describe myself as sexually bipolar. I’m all or nothing. When I was younger I was all…then went through a period of not wanting it at all and feeling deep shame. Thank you for talking about this as it will help so many people move past the shame and achieve a healthy balanced sex life ❤️
2026-07-16 16:06:56
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SeshLife :
Abused abuse as well.
2026-07-17 00:08:15
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Demi lee hale andrews x :
Unless someone’s been through it they’d never know, from another woman that acted just like you did afterwards❤️
2026-07-16 12:28:53
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livinlavidaloca :
i am both too, i feel like i need to give up my body to be loved and wanted but i also feel disgusting and i feel like i don’t even want to be loved if thats what i have to do
2026-07-16 12:30:29
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Lexi998 :
I would say my SA has *definitely* affected my sex life after. I was sex averse up to the point I was actually diagnosed with Vestibulodynia. I have overcome this and now in my 30s am definitely still affected, I wouldn't say hypersexual but exploring k.i.n.k (all consenting obvs)with my husband, which given the k.i.n.k is definitely about taking back power in the situation and control in loads of scenarios and it's interesting to me because I am NOT the d.o.m.... but in a way I find it... healing.... I know some ppl may not understand but we are happy with it.
2026-07-16 15:50:02
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✧ 🎀 Paige 🎀 ✧ :
I struggled bad until I met my partner and got myself into counselling he’s so sweet and caring with it x
2026-07-16 12:29:51
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Leigh :
it really can go either way and there's no shame
2026-07-16 12:58:29
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user2971023300489 :
There is so much shame in survivors who experience hyper-sexuality. I always struggled to be intimate (with someone I love and want to enjoy) but actual s*x was the only way I felt good about myself. It’s really nice to have someone talk about this
2026-07-16 12:53:01
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ChloeBellaBoo :
You’re a warrior and thank you for spreading your journey and spreading awareness
2026-07-16 12:32:20
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🪫 💜 :
is this one thing since recently I struggled with to comes to turn with but its videos like this that make me realise its completely normal and to talk to my therapist about it. I am now the opposite and cant find my way back to enjoy it anymore
2026-07-16 14:24:44
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han :
people need to realise as well that victims are questioning this themselves literally every day
2026-07-16 15:50:10
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Just Me :
I was opposite i love sex dont get any as single but I was diagnosed as hyper sexual
2026-07-16 12:47:30
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💜Holly💜 :
it can change a lot 💕 I was hypersexual from about age 8 to 19 due to abuse. then after therapy I closed up and found intimacy so hard X X
2026-07-21 23:05:30
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fronaismyname13 :
I don’t struggle to be intimate and i do enjoy it but i just never get to the big o, not even on my own. I am giving up on reaching it- and i think it has to do with the grooming i experienced as a tween
2026-07-16 20:50:32
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sammysunday23 :
my partner was SA by her last 2 partners and is hypersexual and is a very k.in.k orientated person to a point now if I say no or maybe later she will literally breakdown or do stuff to herself to get me to do things to her
2026-07-16 13:36:11
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thathealingappbackup :
She was literally taught by her brother that that’s how men love you 😩
2026-07-16 15:12:59
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AKIMOTIVATION 2.0 :
Just an excuse 😂
2026-07-16 13:10:25
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dambrose10 :
👏👏👏👏🫶🫶🫶🫶
2026-07-16 18:26:50
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