“Your boundaries have to be stronger than your empathy “ Yeah needed that .
2026-08-07 07:37:59
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˖ ࣪ ʚaisvɞ ࣪ ˖ :
"Batasan dirimu harus lebih kuat daripada rasa empatimu.
Jika tidak, kamu akan terus mencoba memahami orang-orang yang terus menyakitimu.
Kamu akan memberikan kesempatan kedua yang akhirnya menjadi kesempatan kesepuluh.
Kamu akan membiarkan orang lain memanfaatkanmu begitu saja hanya karena kamu bisa melihat rasa sakit mereka.
Namun, memahami luka seseorang bukan berarti kamu harus tetap tinggal di tempat di mana kamu terluka.
Empati tanpa batasan diri akan menjadi tindakan mengabaikan diri sendiri."
2026-08-15 07:16:14
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do you think i've forgotten :
I AM LEAVER, my boundaries so so so high aku akan memberi terus, as much as possible bahkan mungkin sampai rasanya mereka pikir saking baiknya i will never leave, but i if u know me better i am genuinely a leaver, tapi kalau udah leave i need them to respect my decision as well, i need them untuk guilty in silence. mungkin lagi bagi orang-orang yang bertemu manusia sepertiku, once u experience sama orang baik yang cabut, DON'T EVER TRY TO FIX IT. bentuk menghargai kebaikan yang kita lakukan adalah, udah cabut aja in piece!
2026-08-15 06:58:24
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cristellehm :
Have empathy and sympathy on your own self as well. If you can give it to others, make sure to give it also to yourself. You need it just as much as they do.
2026-08-08 09:01:42
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AG82 :
My problem my entire dating career. Attracting narcissists, users and abusers because I try and understand what makes them the way they are and make excuses for them. Thank you for this
2026-08-08 00:24:33
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Noah :
I don’t think we mean to hurt the ones we love. I think we just don’t realize what our words really mean to someone.
2026-07-17 04:11:45
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gurlsss :
after 8 tahun gue bisa cut off manusia² toxic 😭 ketenangan harga mati gada lagi kompromi² an
2026-08-15 12:06:32
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jeffjfit :
So hard when you love them and see the potential …. But you should never live of potential
2026-08-17 14:42:36
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sukachokolate :
kenapa ya harus punya perasaan kek gini, kek yaudah lah yang berlalu , biar lah berlalu, sampek semuanya selesai sendiri dan akhirnya kayak aku berdamai sama semuanya, tapi jujur di sisi lain aku juga kecewa dan capek harus ngertiin semuanya, tanpa aku di ngertiin balik
2026-08-16 06:08:33
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hspyccyorl :
and unfortunately just because of someone, I forgot thousands of people who love me, I will start again, find someone true who will be with me without anyone else in it.
2026-08-15 20:43:01
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𝒩𝒜 :
You know, i often thought about this but i guess i was born to be someone that always loved & the softest. I can’t be hard no matter how hard i try. Its hard for me to become someone else & maybe that’s the reason why i let someone i love before hurting me
2026-08-16 16:16:47
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JD_ :
True !
2026-07-16 13:08:41
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cholis :
BACA PLIS WAHAI DIRI GUE, GOSAH JADI ORANG TERLALU BAEK😭
2026-08-17 11:33:02
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rizkyputriazzahra :
makasi banget uda lewat
2026-08-15 08:03:47
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es tebu :
apaan lewat
2026-08-15 07:56:59
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HowItFeelsStill :
lkept finding reasons to understand why they treated me that way, until I realized I had become so focused on understanding their pain that I stopped noticing what their pain was doing to me
2026-08-15 01:51:34
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catchthelines :
Maybe it’s to learn how to remain soft without leaving yourself unprotected. I will still be a compassionate person, but I won't keep sacrificing myself to prove that I am one. 🤍
2026-08-16 08:23:56
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𝓢𝓬𝓪𝓻𝓵𝓮𝓽 🎀 :
Ig now I know why my ex labeled me as someone who 100% have no empathy. it’s because I started to put boundaries after we officially break up. 🤣🤣
2026-08-15 23:47:53
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Edo Rizki Sianturi :
Yes, I often hurt people who love me many times, I deserve all the punishment one day for what I have done.
2026-08-15 16:36:52
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skythrax :
maafkan aku ya diriku 🥹🫂
2026-08-15 15:46:54
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Just a girl and her AI :
I am learning this. The hard way. Right now. It’s so very hard.
2026-08-09 00:17:40
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• Autumn Leaves • :
One night, during a talking with friends, one of them told me “your empathy is kind su!c!dA.L” and that sentence hit me so hard because I felt that it was true… sometimes I just need to remind to myself to put some boundaries because feeling too much without those is like to slap yourself hard and harder. Sometimes being a kind person to yourself too is the biggest and hardest reminder that we could say to ourselves.
2026-08-16 02:38:03
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Lady Ega| Thinker :
so true, understanding others pain doesn't mean you stay with them. leave when it no longer serves you 🙏🙏
2026-08-16 06:07:46
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