@ilyas.abdulin: Are Looks All That Matter In Dating? My Take On Black Pill. I originally made this video for my paid subscribers, but the message felt too important to keep behind a paywall. I share my honest take on how much looks matter in dating - and why a fatalistic view of dating can hold young men back. Looks affect your starting position, but they do not have to determine what you do with it. Improve what you can, accept what you cannot change, and keep going. #datingadvice #SelfImprovement #advice #discussion #mindset
the blackpill ideology is the belief that everything is pre determined by your genetics since birth, its not about "dating" or "looks" only but yea love the video man
2026-07-16 14:29:53
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mantiz\> :
Aaaaand post
2026-07-16 14:28:57
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ㅤㅤMarvin :
No, the black pill just shows that life is easier when you’re more attractive i.e getting a job. Black pill can either motivate you or destroy you.
2026-07-16 15:04:49
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Brett :
It’s a two sided coin, some take it and improve themselves and some take it as they can’t do any better, choose which one you want to be
2026-07-16 14:26:08
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𝔇𝔢𝚟𝔦𝔬𝔲𝔰 ❀𓆪 :
Not what bp is about
2026-07-16 17:49:59
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. :
First L take.
looks are everything. EVERYTHING
2026-07-16 18:56:27
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Isa :
I think many people use it as an excuse to give up. They become losers, and it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy.
2026-07-17 05:10:18
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exoticgooder :
This is a flawed understanding of lookism
2026-07-16 17:30:22
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Lasse :
The blackpill does not state that looks are everything
2026-07-16 20:11:30
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tno0.1 :
There’s the difference between black pill and looksmaxing.
2026-07-16 17:21:45
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CONQUEST :
first L take from the goat
2026-07-16 15:53:39
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️ مازن :
But there are many studies proving the black pill ideology, the halo effect, the videos it never ends
2026-07-16 18:49:28
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DimChig :
bp is brutal bro don't go there
2026-07-16 20:44:19
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(•_•) :
You go for the looks, stay for the personality
2026-07-16 17:34:37
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iod_the_wierd_one :
ilyas looks attracts personality keeps a relationship. thats how I see it
2026-07-16 14:26:03
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MarkoB🖤🇭🇹 :
looks matter a lot. are they everything? in this world sorta. personality is more important than looks but depending on HOW you look changes everything
2026-07-16 14:33:23
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dabest643 :
I think the black pill is just crazy levels of fatalism masquerading as logic 💀 when I looked into it, I got the sense that it completely strips a man of his agency and gives him a convenient excuse to stop working on himself. the red pill teaches you to build a mission, maximize your assets, and be the architect of your own reality (if you're not swimming in the rp rage grifter content). the black pill seems like it's just a self pity loop for people who would rather complain about the game than put in the work to win it. but maybe my views are outdated since it appears there's been a shift as looksmaxing and whatnot seems to have taken hold?
2026-07-16 15:38:53
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Nobody :
Isn’t bp to make a person his best version of himself and js deal with it
2026-07-16 16:06:17
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Arjit :
women are attracted to confidence
2026-07-16 15:08:17
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Call me Sam :
I have seen both sides of this, I got a fairly large facial scar in my childhood. I saw, first hand, the simple fact is that the normal way that I interact with people went from being "charming" and "endeering" to "creepy" and "predatory" literally overnight. I was so disgusted by the shallowness of the "emotionally intelligent sex" that I refused to participate in this objectification. I dressed like a hobo, deliberately kept my hair a mess, and my nails ragged. I basically fell into grunge. Which was beneficial because the facial scar and appearance were status symbols there, and it intruduced me to a whole other caliber of women.
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Long story short, the members of the opposite sex that don't value what you value would only make you miserable in a relationship anyway. Be you. Unapologetically.
2026-07-16 16:07:14
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