@tuvecinadeallado: Why do so many divorced women in midlife say they never want to marry again? It’s not always because they hate men. Sometimes it’s because, for the first time in their adult life, they are not responsible for one. They don’t have to manage his moods. Remember his appointments. Carry the emotional weight of the relationship. Ask, again and again, to be listened to, touched properly, noticed. And then they discover something they had forgotten existed: Peace. So when a man comes into her life, he is no longer competing with another man. He is competing with her freedom. And unless the relationship feels better than the life she has built alone… Why the hell would she give it up? #marriage #marriedlife #genxwomen