Opallauryn
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Thursday 16 July 2026 17:16:35 GMT
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leahquokka :
IT’s ALL THEY CARE ABOUT! FULL STOP
2026-07-17 22:50:10
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souredpineapple :
they speak like we’re another species
2026-07-16 19:06:11
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brainwashedbybravo :
Wait and see?
2026-07-17 20:11:06
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Lyle Lysander :
As an autistic person I who struggles with nonverbal communication… i’ve never had a problem figuring out if someone i was with wanted to go further during a makeout… i’ve also never had an issue someone pausing the makeout real quick to ask if they could do something more or if i could do something more it’s actually pretty hot ngl
2026-07-17 21:06:20
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YakiSloth :
so did they forget that they can use their words?!?!? they can ask "hey, are you in the mood for this? do you just want to cuddle? do you just wanna make out?"
2026-07-16 21:34:54
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justren808 :
I feel like the men are using weaponized incompetence at this point.
2026-07-16 19:20:45
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Micah :
I promise you a woman would greatly prefer feeling rejected over you crossing a line she wasn’t ready for
2026-07-16 21:04:21
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Aoife an daoibhe ✨ :
WE WANT NON SEXUAL KISSING AND CUDDLING
2026-07-16 18:17:32
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Mama_Bear🏒🥅 :
Start with no expectation of sex and go forward. Not the other way around.
2026-07-17 21:15:09
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vaultgeist :
My ex told me he didn’t want me touching him unless I was prepared to have sex I stopped touching him altogether
2026-07-16 22:47:40
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Neitrael🇨🇦 :
The baseline is that a hug, kiss, rub, hand holding etc is not inherently sexual. it's intimate connection and should not be an indication to men for immediate sex. Geez it's not hard.
2026-07-16 23:06:43
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Lauren (Lola) :
The men that say this shit aren’t concerned about how their partner feels. They only care about what they can get. Thats why hey don’t know cues.
2026-07-16 19:33:50
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Jennifer MacPherson :
"without communication" 🤣 crazy idea...you can just COMMUNICATE!
2026-07-16 21:03:50
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🫣 :
Also when you kiss it’s not like you are suddenly glued together 💀 just ask
2026-07-16 21:03:15
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Jp :
Also, consent can be revoked at ANY TIME not just at the start….
2026-07-16 21:41:13
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Candice Pendley Bron :
We want non-obligatory touch. One of the best things I did (by accident) for me and my husband is we got a sectional that you can set up how ever you want. He set it up where we had a console between us. I moved it to where our recliners were right next to each other so that I could lay side ways and drape my legs over his lap. I realize now it was physical touch without expectation and it did wonders for our intimacy.
2026-07-16 19:59:38
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Kelly Marie |Soft Western Glam :
not all intimacy is sex. there are different types of kissing and cuddling. I kiss my husband every day before he goes to work because its an intimate way of showing love and thats it. zero confusion
2026-07-16 20:28:20
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allie :
My husband knows where I’m at in my cycle and acts accordingly. He also knows the difference in how I kiss him when I’m turned on and how I kiss when I just wanna kiss. Like that man KNOWS me. We haven’t ever had an intimacy issue. We been together for 9 years and the honeymoon phase has never ended.
2026-07-16 20:21:31
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catmeowitzer :
This is why I love being ✨gay✨ cause we can kiss for ✨hours✨ and have zero expectations or pressure on going further
2026-07-16 20:34:52
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Aspen :
This conversation is so confusing to me because whenever my partner or I aren't sure if the other person wants it, we just ask. Like it's the simplest thing in the world. Words make communication so easy.
2026-07-16 23:23:28
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•ALACHITE :
That’s the other thing, most men are taught to believe beyond sex nothing else they could do would be considered intimate. Even most attractive men aren’t seen as desirable by most women so they can’t imagine why a woman would want something seemingly mundane from them.
2026-07-16 19:27:12
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Abbysfavfinds :
God forbid we communicate…
2026-07-16 20:09:05
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Dodger :
Nonverbal communication is real and not that complicated. If you’re not sure. Pause and ask yah know.
2026-07-17 16:01:12
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carebear :
As a woman I speak up … if I want a cuddle and back rub I tell him and he respects it
2026-07-17 04:20:11
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Charlie Woodchuck :
In that scenario, the woman gets her sexual and non-sexual needs met every time…until the affection declines because the man feels rejected and resentment for all the times “she only wants to kiss.”
2026-07-17 13:37:10
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