@drewwdaniels: The “you hate me” conversation and the “I hate you” conversation can at least be the most connection you’ve had with your partner in years. For many of us who loop the same eternal fights- the thing we are longing for is us to have agreement and truth with our partner just one time. What’s interesting is that any response to this claim- reveals a lot. Will they deny it? Will their devotion of love for you sound real coming out of their mouth? Will their response sound as authentic as you? Or will they agree? Will they finally cave to some authenticity? #avoidant #avoidantattachment #defensiveness
Ya, we had this exact convo. I was very close to leaving and asked him any he wanted this to continue because I was sure he didn’t like me. I said you might love me as a person but you don’t like me. Made him pause and reflect. Lots more was said and we got into counseling. Celebrating 20 years this month!
2026-07-16 20:55:01
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Kate 🖤 :
I tried this and he said "no I dont"
2026-07-16 22:40:02
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Drew Daniels :
What would happen if you had this conversation?
2026-07-16 19:44:20
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HandsomeBagel :
do you think human being operate like computers? give a specific input and a specific set of actions happens? even if this were the case, the idea of this conversation between two people with these relationship issues is far away from sane
2026-07-17 04:09:10
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Ayaverareyhan :
its not conversations secure people ever have
2026-07-17 08:52:33
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rob🫧 :
i tried having this conversation multiple times before it was too late but it never brought any reflection. then i could clearly feel the resentment after the breakup
2026-07-16 21:34:18
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mamafdarcy :
The only part of the conversation I could not have with him, is the part where I’m supposed to say “and I trust you to ….” because I don’t.
2026-07-16 23:14:51
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T_Hop :
Would be cool to have that conversation but she blocked me after I told her how the ghosting and avoiding me made me feel.
2026-07-17 15:29:59
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Shana :
Well idk if this can apply to my situation, we didn’t argue a lot but a slow fade she said feelings weren’t the same anymore and offered friendship. I can’t do it. I want a relationship and I’m all for moving slow but she doesn’t tell me anything that’s her needs idek if she knows it.
2026-07-17 13:35:25
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user8623360778714 :
Boy what.
2026-07-16 20:29:07
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ᨰׁׅꪱׁׅᥣׁׅ֪ժׁׅ݊ :
Its i hate you now, aftera llll this time, becus y0u keep hurting me cus u hate yrsdlf
2026-07-17 10:38:59
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jo Jo leader :
No. Leave the avoidant. Leave them. Empowered yourself. Earn.Open a business. Dont rely on desperation. It won't work . it will break you. Do not listen to him. Or men in general
2026-07-17 05:02:02
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Lauren Hall :
😂😂😂
2026-07-17 03:06:46
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