@anxiouslyalej: Most avoidant men do not lie through what they say, they lie through what they leave out, so let me make you a human lie detector with three tells avoidants are notorious for. People lie to avoid shame and judgment and to bypass vulnerability, which is why avoidants gravitate toward lying by omission, because keeping a full lie straight is exhausting, so instead he gives you just enough to feel included without ever being informed. He says he stayed late and leaves out that late meant happy hour with the coworker he supposedly cannot stand, just the two of them, he paid, she drove him home. One, notice who is missing from the story, because omitters give you the what and the when but go vague on the who. Two, the follow-up test, ask one specific question, and an honest person adds detail freely while an omitter gets vague or irritated or hits you with why are you interrogating me, believe what you want, and believe what you want means I have no idea how you figured that out and I am terrified. Three, watch the ratio of detail, because wherever he is long-winded, the lie is hiding in whatever he rushes past. The truth does not only live in what is said, it lives in what is intentionally left out. His words reflect who he wants to be, his actions reflect who he actually is. Keywords: how to tell if he is lying, lying by omission, how to catch a liar, signs he is hiding something, avoidant men, believe what you want meaning, dating advice for women, relationship psychology #womensdatingadvice #datingforwomen #relationships #datingadvice #malepsychology

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