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CinnyTCrunch :
People with ROCD this can be bad to think about and cause a spiral. It is hard for us to look at a relationship without the doubts. If things actually don’t show up in real life right then that’s different. And don’t forget people grow and people change just because you are misaligned now unless it’s something they can’t change 100% things can be talked about and growth together is possible. I have ROCD about my relationship but we are perfectly aligned irl but it’s still hard not to have these thoughts because of my diagnosis. Realize it is ROCD and move forward! Just helping other girlies that come across this. :3
2026-07-17 18:06:28
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Carissa :
He’s perfect in every way for me but I wish he did little cute things for me like got me matcha and food and surpised me with little things I like , but he just doesn’t rlly naturally think like that but treats me perfect, but I also don’t wanna force him to do all that bc it feels unnatural and like I begged for it. I love him but I crave something idk it’s like an itch but I don’t wanna lose the best thing I’ve ever had such a weird feeling when everything. Is so healthy
2026-07-20 19:33:01
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simplyvisenna :
I deadass don’t know if it’s my rocd or misalignment
2026-09-01 17:22:17
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Angelica🐧 :
no because this is my first healthy and emotionally safe relationship and it's soooo scary sometimes because of how peaceful it is when all I've known is uncertainty and waiting for the other show to drop 😭😭
2026-07-20 03:43:02
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Steffan Westerberg :
Me it’s stress about the future - some things are in our control, others are not. But being an overthinker I struggle with just being present & not trying to stress myself out over certain future topics.
2026-07-17 21:43:06
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TikToker :
My boyfriend and I have always had conversations and we have grown together through these- although it was mostly me bringing up stuff but they have gotten less frequent over time as he’s taken initiative and we’ve developed what we want in a relationship. I still have a fear as he’s my first serious boyfriend, so I don’t know if I have enough experience to decide this is what I want for life. I know he’s a great guy but I’m afraid if I leave to explore I’ll realise he was a great boyfriend and never find better. I feel so lost and don’t know what to do because I do love him but find myself wondering what it would be like outside of our relationship.
2026-08-04 11:05:36
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FML :
Been with him 4 years and I just feel we are two different who want different things we are only 20 and I don’t want to waist my life with him or regret living it without him :/ am so stuck x
2026-08-03 19:04:39
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bryceyy :
what if its a mix of both? super happy and communicative and wantin to come back to it but still knowing in the long run things might be different for ut futures
2026-07-17 01:59:21
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Hasubi :
What about a guy that is everything you would want emotionally and you feel connected to them on a deeper level, but don’t feel particularly drawn to them physically? Like attraction wise. I feel evil and so shallow, but I just can’t get past it
2026-07-17 00:25:44
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ana :
i don't like how this showed up at such a pointed time 😭 thank you for this
2026-07-20 16:14:07
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Cadie 🪞 :
Doubts get really heavy especially when I see all sorts of things on social media about “oh all partners leave/cheat!”, but despite this I always just hope that he feels as connected to me as I do to him
2026-07-16 23:04:46
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★pink starburst★ :
ROCD people: this is not for us
2026-09-01 22:14:09
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Dani ;) :
wow this was really helpful for me right now. I feel soooo guilty for these occasional feelings of doubt because I know in my heart I don’t want to leave him, he does make me feel safe and I know 1000% he’s my person. but we are going thru some stress right now and i’m having some internal stress just with myself working through some things that i’ve recognized are also contributing to how I feel in general. having the reassurance that the occasional thought of “what if this isn’t right even tho it feels so right usually” is really nice
2026-07-20 07:10:03
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Rachel Schmitz :
Our fundamental differences cause unmet needs. For example, I like things clean he doesn’t care if they’re messy, causing me to feel like he’s not thinking about me just bc he doesn’t clean something that I automatically do. We love each other and we try to communicate but our differences get in the way so much sometimes it feels like even our attitudes and energies are misaligned.
2026-09-01 00:17:30
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Cait :
So hard when they claim they can work on that “one thing” you would want to change only AFTER you’ve communicated needs for months and decided to end things.
2026-08-22 23:42:46
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Caitiebug25 :
Here’s the thing I struggle with relationship OCD due to past abusive experiences. I realized that I have just been having doubts in my relationship and not misalignment with our goals because that’s what I was worrying about for a while, but you have really helped me realize that it’s not misalignment. It is just temporary doubt I still have high respect, deep love, and a deep admiration for my boyfriend. I think part of me is scared to get hurt again because I have been hurt so badly in the past by a different man. So thank you for coming across my for you page. It really put my heart at ease. I know I’m in the right relationship sometimes it’s just scary due to my past.
2026-07-31 16:36:03
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buttons_system :
the biggest problem is i never imagined living my life with him (or like, did but didn't actually belive in it) and now idk how to feel anymore cause i feel so detatched
2026-08-08 16:35:40
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user8332439140027 :
I love her and would rather be with her than start over
2026-07-17 16:41:47
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majesticmystery :
knowing and working on each others love languages is huge
2026-07-22 08:07:35
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alli :
Idk I think it’s like if you’re thinking “if this one thing could change…” for years then sure but you can also try to communicate your needs and see if that change is possible and you don’t have to accept your relationship as it is forever when there’s growth and change in progress
2026-09-15 02:41:18
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ThatsMrDrProfpatrick2u :
it’s crazy, when 2 people meet and end up getting almost everything they’ve ever wanted, they finally feel comfortable and safe. BUT then they start nitpicking the small little details and asking for more and more and it’s like we can never be truly content... and I understand there’s give-and-take, but when you climb to the top of the mountain, there’s nothing else, but going down the other side🤷🏻♂️it’s just reality, so I mean you can be happy that you got to see the beautiful view and experience it for once in your life with "your person" OR you can go look for another mountain to climb, and redo the cycle all over again🤷🏻♂️I know it's not a perfect analogy but... Hopefully you get the idea? And I am in that relationship limbo right now, I am content with things, ya it can be boring at times, but that’s how I like my life. I just want simplicity, peace, and Worry free stability🤷🏻♂️I’m a simple man, I work, sleep, repeat! I'm a steak and potatoes type of guy! I made that very clear from the beginning, it was enough for the first 2 years or so, but I guess it just isn’t scratching her "itch" anymore so we bicker, and disagree more and more, it feels like it's just gonna be a slow and steady drift apart until it over..... the only way to "fix" things is for us to "be how we used to be" but we don't seem to know how to anymore.....
2026-09-05 08:27:45
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co ja vim :
it is really hard. i have no idea how i truly feel. what makes it even harder is that we liked each other few years ago but did not know. later we reunited and we fell in love. absolutely effortlessly, and totally magically. now we are one year together and have a lot reocurring troubles. we are young and still need to learn a lot. but i am starting to worry that we would not be able to sort some things out.. and because of out story and past, I believed that we are "destined" and that makes all of that even harder. i think i ignored some signs from the beginning because of that as well.
2026-08-29 10:20:00
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princesa :
just break up
2026-07-22 06:17:44
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Shree :
what about when he's buying a house and due to starting a new job living there won't work due to the commute but that was supposed to be the next step after 3.5yrs and now it's not. can this go anywhere
2026-08-14 07:01:28
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user721 :
Me, a guy listening to this 📝
2026-08-04 12:32:41
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