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abcs.of.attraction
JT Tran | Asian Dating Coach™ :
Never be someone’s first “good man”
2026-07-17 17:53:48
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elementalz60
randomonium :
"You're the nicest guy I've ever dated" Translation: "Once the honeymoon phase wears off, I'm going to punish you for all the past guys' wrong-doings." RUN. RUN. RUN.
2026-07-17 17:29:18
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bers_darbsman
Ḅ👁‍🗨 :
Brother not even dating,just being friends with them is enough to reframe you as the bad guy☠️
2026-08-05 08:24:30
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s1thpsycho
TZAWA🇵🇸🎸 :
If someone hates men they are sexist.
2026-07-18 04:38:11
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.justmalachi
malachi 🚶🏾‍➡️ :
Isn’t this like Joe Bart’s relationship?
2026-07-17 17:55:30
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ochrist22
OCHRIST 🇪🇸 🇵🇷 :
Social media's ruined how we view relationships
2026-07-17 22:56:26
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i_koolaid_
kayla :
Why even date someone that insults your identity, theyll never fully accept you
2026-07-18 23:47:44
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em3317
em :
I think y'all just arent as nice as you think you are... but a lotta y'all aint ready for that conversation.
2026-07-19 10:47:19
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lehokyo
LehoKyo :
She said “You are the first guy to ever respect me.” That was basically her saying: I'm about to take everything they did to me out on you. She technically warned you 😭
2026-07-17 07:34:57
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rpgkushx
Rose :
“ you’re my exception to the rules” that term always felt weird to me
2026-07-18 13:08:49
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overcastrainbow
‧˚꒰🍨꒱ ᵎᵎ 𐔌・𝓞𝓵𝓲𝓿𝓮𝓻 〃・꒱ :
whole comment section filled with "nice guys" tf
2026-07-18 03:44:52
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luxen.z
luxenz :
Joe bart 😂🫱
2026-07-18 00:17:21
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jejfkznxbkz
Dorie :
i don't hate men i'm just scared of being hurt 😭
2026-07-25 02:00:02
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official_edweirdo
official_edweirdo :
One of my exes would always say “all men are the same” whenever we have minor conflicts… it was so exhausting…
2026-07-24 21:46:29
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user578721619592
user578721619592 :
You should never date a misandrist!!!
2026-07-23 11:45:46
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hopidy2436
hopidy2436 :
as a woman -he’s right. He’s more than right. Why be with someone who hates your identity? Regardless of the reasoning for getting someone you should get help not turn around and date them.
2026-07-19 04:11:34
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alfonsosebascastro
alfonsosebascastro :
When you realize the term “I hate men” is actually part of misogyny. It opens your eyes wide open
2026-07-20 18:39:34
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alaeyne
Alaeyne :
I learned this the hard way. If a girl tells you you are the only person to have ever treated her well, RUN. You will become her next villain.
2026-07-17 15:26:16
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elliex409
Elliex :
it's interesting because these same women would never advocate dating an incel (rightfully so), yet they're essentially their female counterpart.
2026-07-23 10:51:46
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mdnight_sun
3amShanker :
like the klan putting an arm around your shoulder and says " you're one of the good ones."
2026-07-18 16:04:43
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baioreto
violet :
there's nuance to this discussion. plenty of women say they hate men because they hate the patriarchy because it's an oppressive system, and men are more often the contributors to holding up that system (but women can contribute as well). and it's not necessarily just about hating an entire group of people, it's about the pattern of behavior we see from that group. obviously not all men are going to be misogynistic, but because of the social system we were all raised in, misogyny is often natural and accepted to the point where a lot of men don't even realize when they say something harmful. both parties should be open minded and willing to hear the other person's side, but men should realize that they will never understand how dehumanizing it is like to be a woman under the patriarchy, and it affects every single aspect of our lives every day. that is why women say they hate men, because the patriarchy is the system that oppresses us, and it's out of hurt and frustration more than hate
2026-07-18 22:39:30
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summer.blues02
Bloom 🌸 :
You’re right. I feel like there’s a huge difference between someone who makes “I hate men” their whole personality vs someone who dislikes men because of safety issues. I hate men because of my own experiences and safety issues. However, I don’t project that onto random men and I don’t project it onto my boyfriend. So my boyfriend doesn’t feel the constant need to prove himself to me or anything like that. I never feel the need to compare my boyfriend to other men in order to appreciate him. It’s just unhealthy. I know some men can be that way to their gf too, comparing their gf to other women in order to uplift her. Neither is okay! Certain amount of healing is necessary before entering a relationship so it can be a healthy loving one. 💓
2026-07-18 17:49:29
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