Chidi O
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IgboDotCome :
Just because that is the custom in your village and what your forefathers taught you, does not make it a universal principle across all of Igboland. Igbo customs are not entirely uniform and many communities recognize a man’s child as his legitimate offspring whether or not there was a formal marriage to the mother. Paternity, not the marital status of the parents, is what matters. The only part of your submission I find troubling is your haste to dismiss anyone who disagrees with you as “non-Igbo.” By doing so, you implicitly claim exclusive ownership of Igbo identity while reducing others to migrants or outsiders. That is neither logical nor historically sound. No responsible Igbo man abandons his own seed for others to raise simply because he was not married to the child’s mother. If we were to apply your own reasoning, would it then be fair to conclude that because you reject this position, you are not truly Igbo but rather a descendant of immigrants from Igala-land considering the well-documented historical traditions linking some ancestors of the people of Enugwu-Ukwu to that region? I don’t believe such a conclusion would be fair. So why is it fair for you to question the Igbo identity of others simply because they hold a different understanding of Igbo customary practice?
2026-07-18 05:51:27
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onyi NWA :
nnam God will bless you and your family yes is the truth
2026-07-18 07:03:50
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Don king :
you're right sir that's igbo tradition
2026-07-18 13:45:53
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Beze :
to answer your question our blood dont stay outside if their is conflict of cultures its either the child dies or if he grows he must come back i am from enugu Awgu go and ask.
2026-07-18 11:09:37
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Black Dove Tv :
not in my own village sir, it will never happen
2026-07-18 04:48:30
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Ogbu Amso :
yes is true that is my side tradition
2026-07-18 05:18:23
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BUSY BRAIN :
in my own place for Ebonyi stete who pay get piking. we don't give piking for who no pay
2026-07-18 04:53:31
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White goddess 🌊✨💫 :
If you did not pay dowry and she gives birth, the child automatically belong to her father. if another man come and pay her dowry then the man is her husband.
2026-07-18 08:04:33
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THE PREACHER :
Child is by marriage not by blood in my place I am from Anambra state awka north
2026-07-18 12:21:28
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Dave Dallas PH :
child is by blood not by marriage
2026-07-17 22:21:16
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𝗔𝗖𝗧 𝗢𝗙 𝗟𝗘𝗫𝗨𝗦 :
Enugu ezike is an example, we don't own another person blood and you can't own ours but I think the dynamics is changing now
2026-07-18 12:22:05
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DE CHIEF PRIEST :
in my community if you don't marry your wife you can't also give your duither out for marriage until you pay her mother's bride price, before talking of longship self
2026-07-18 08:21:54
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chemical Alli of Pub Admin oko :
you're right sir I am in this situation currently married with 4kids but previously had a baby girl with my ex girlfriend whom I sorted all medical bills till she delivered , fast forward to 5months after she left and since 2017 no show, they said I didn't pay her dowry... I met my wife, we dated and she got pregnant.. and my inlaw told me before hand that is should marry their daughter else if she gives birth it's not my baby... Iarried her anyways and it's been fun
2026-07-18 01:53:26
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Baron De Raw :
oga sir it's a lie in my village it's not done that well
2026-07-17 21:34:24
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HAPPY LIFE :
you said it all sir
2026-07-17 20:13:11
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Gerry Ben Chibest :
you said it all sir
2026-07-17 19:40:36
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Dave Dallas PH :
NWA is by blood not marriage just as government is following
2026-07-17 22:20:00
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BUSY BRAIN :
in my own place for Ebonyi stete who pay get piking. we don't give piking for who no pay
2026-07-18 04:53:31
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JANUARY 20 :
some people are living on ignorance, you're saying the truth ichie
2026-07-17 14:47:44
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MOSESLAW IZUOGU👹☠♟🎯 :
Igbo ejilo nwa emeeee ogo
2026-07-17 22:34:58
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Nzemezu Lotanna :
Is not in all Igbo land.
2026-07-18 04:59:09
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BRIGHT🤍FUTURE💦🧿☯️🇨🇾 🇹🇷 :
Everything you said is right sir
2026-07-17 13:17:43
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Royce v :
pure
2026-07-17 08:44:17
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Wisdom I.B (Anam first son) :
you are a real traditional chief sir 🤏💯💯💯💯
2026-07-17 18:43:50
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Austin Eze :
is it Enugu ukwu na umunri??
2026-07-17 20:42:48
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