pje Star AI editor :
It's so funny seeing fellow women blaming the victim. Yes, the girl was wrong for trusting him and leaving her area to go and meet him. But this man took advantage of her. Look at what happened. She sent him a DM and asked him for help: "Sir, I'm going through some challenges. Even one man who normally helps me has changed. He wants me to come and meet him in Abuja, and it involves things I don't want to do. I am a virgin."Then Odogwu Asaba advised her, "Don't go. Instead, I will send you transport fare so you can come to Asaba. I will tutor you and help you with what I have." She trusted him. She felt that because he advised her not to go to that man, it meant Odogwu Asaba was a good man. So, she trusted him. She even told her twin sister, "I'm going to meet Odogwu Asaba in Asaba."When she got there, he took her around and later took her to a hotel. She was nervous, but she thought he wouldn't be able to do anything to her because he was a public figure. Then she asked him, "What are we doing at the hotel?" He replied, "This is where I normally stay."She became even more tense, but she still had a heart that trusted people. This man took advantage of her, raped her, and gave her ₦20,000 or ₦10,000. He also told her, "If you tell anybody, nobody will believe you."She went home feeling pains all over her body. That was when she chatted the man because she needed to go to the hospital, take care of her body, and buy drugs. She asked him to send her ₦50,000 because he had already raped her. The man refused to send the money. That was when she became angry and said, "I trusted you. I wish I had gone to that man in Abuja. If I had given him what he wanted, he would have given me more." She was devastated. The virginity she had preserved for so long had been taken by a complete stranger who treated girls like animals. The girl was in pain. Before she came online to tell her story, she couldn't overcome the shame because, in Nigeria, people hardly believe a girl when she says she was raped. They always blame the girl. That girl unalived herself because of Nigeria's reaction, not because of the rape alone. Some people are busy talking about her dressing, asking, "
2026-07-18 03:26:34