@lewis: Why forgiveness ISN’T always the answer 🤯❤️‍🩹 Top psychologist & narcissism expert Dr. Ramani Durvasula explains 🙏 Do you agree? Let me know your thoughts in the comments 💭 #narcissist #healing #narcissism #toxicrelationship #forgiveness

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thesimi65
Simi :
Narcissistic abuse causes brain damage
2026-07-18 17:47:35
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alison_woods4
alison_woods :
FINALLY. Someone who doesn't forgive. I feel so seen.
2026-07-19 05:13:55
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melifascent
Melissa :
I forgave myself 🥰 not my abusers
2026-07-18 23:50:31
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spirit.born.rogue
Spirit Born Rogue :
Forgiveness is directly rooted to western religions (ie christianity) which takes away the responsibility from the abuser and pushes it back on the victim
2026-07-19 14:38:40
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Kelly-25 :
"It changed my view of myself" - that's the real damage and takes years to undo.
2026-07-18 18:51:49
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valeriepantaloneart
Valerie's Art 🎨🇺🇸🆘 :
Narcissists should never be parents
2026-07-19 01:28:09
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stefanieblakely
stefanieblakely :
I will never forgive my abuser. I forgive myself for not knowing better, for not being able to leave sooner, for not seeing the manipulation. I don’t waste energy being angry at him… I focus all of my energy on rebuilding the pieces of me that were lost in that relationship. He had seven years to change his behavior and be forgiven. I have the rest of my life to love myself.
2026-07-20 02:50:45
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worryboutyoselflove
The Shift - Unmapped :
I forgive myself for allowing them to treat me that way for so long. But I don’t forgive them. Not ever.
2026-07-18 22:47:27
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mericanocatooljn
Mussii💞 :
Thank you. I am so sick off this "forgive for your peace".
2026-07-18 16:35:05
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eilleelleb
eilleelleb :
Forgiving them is enabling them.
2026-07-19 02:56:41
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meowxoxo
Kathy 🎀 :
I had to bury a version (I yearned) of my mother because I knew she would never change... she will ALWAYS be a narcissist and I had to accept that. Like bojack horseman, I don't think I will feel much when she passes and it sucks.
2026-07-20 02:47:55
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iamstarseed1988
UrbetaStarSeed1917 :
💯 Agree with her... I forgave myself for not leaving earlier.
2026-07-18 23:47:23
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user4011239859335
Natasha Big Eagle Richard :
You do not have to forgive people.
2026-07-18 16:36:46
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the_moonbeam_club
The Moonbeam Club :
I 100% agree with her. there's something so detrimental and damaging that occurs when you keep forgiving someone and you know in your heart you shouldn't.
2026-07-18 17:52:33
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magicalpatterns
Magical Patterns :
Sometimes I think forgiveness is to myself for not letting go sooner.
2026-07-20 02:47:52
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s3v3nsist3rs
✨sevensisters✨ :
I feel nothing cutting people off permanently, that is peace
2026-07-20 02:49:23
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nishinomeriya
nish :
Dr Ramani 💚 always and forever thankful I came across her YouTube channel years ago in 2016.
2026-07-20 02:50:31
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unfiltereddoctrine
UnfilteredDoctrine :
Forgiveness is not necessary for you to move on believe me.
2026-07-18 23:12:06
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wiskusluv M :
Forgiveness is so overrated, uts a form of gaslighting.
2026-07-19 08:39:32
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ashleyyyyy4891
AshBash :
I’m glad someone said this.
2026-07-18 16:41:55
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_h_a_l_i_e_n_
_h_a_l_i_e_n_ :
I don’t understand why people think you have to forgive someone in order to find peace. The obsession with forgiveness makes no sense to me
2026-07-19 17:23:42
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daxton.page
Daxton Page :
If someone can’t forgive that shows emotional immaturity. Forgiveness is not giving someone a pass, it’s giving yourself permission not to hold onto resentment that eats away at you. Lewis, your guests have been terrible recently…
2026-07-18 15:53:51
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aj_1756
A :
you can have empathy but not forgiveness
2026-07-19 16:20:38
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ttslowdown
TT Slowdown :
Forgiveness is not for them...it's for you
2026-07-18 19:32:10
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stephzum3
Stephanie :
It permanently alters your brain chemistry.
2026-07-19 03:09:13
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