@scott.austin.martin: "I said I was sorry. I don't know what else you want from me." Sound familiar? Here's what's happening. The apology became the finish line. But for the person who was hurt, the apology is often just the starting line. Repair isn't just admitting you did something. It's becoming curious about what it was like to be on the receiving end of you. Secure people don't ask "did you hear my apology?" They ask "help me understand what that was like for you." An apology without curiosity feels like a transaction. Curiosity turns it into repair. That's the difference between saying you're sorry - and becoming safe. #relationships #nervoussystem #menscoach #communication
Scott, I'd be interested if you would share what percentage of your followers are men. I realise you are a men's coach but your content is free therapy. I wish more men would listen, reflect and action your insights
2026-07-19 03:49:13
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user011455688 :
Astonishing that some grown up men need to be taught this..
2026-07-18 02:54:42
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catrvaughan :
My ex would never apologize. He never felt he did any wrong
2026-07-17 21:40:03
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Ms. Scarlet :
I'm so glad I found your account. Such great content.
2026-07-19 03:18:51
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HerVoice :
What if I had been trying to do active things in the background… already apologiezed sincerely, tried to actively start a convo, show an apology through action…. But not getting anywhere…. Then is it a “I don’t know what you want? Please tell me what you want?” Cause I’m actually curious about what it is that he wants and he never tells me or gives me a straightforward answer…
2026-07-18 17:40:40
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Kimberly :
Lack of accountability
2026-07-17 21:33:31
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Heidi V. :
what about the men the just repeat the phrases from the book with no curiosity what só ever and than says....Im doing what I have to but isn't working. Basically using the teaching as script not as a real way to change
2026-07-17 19:19:41
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Cesar :
I understood her but she never wanted to understand me. Voice my issues & she felt attacked so she attacked me & called me a narcissist so I left her in her disfunction
2026-07-18 10:16:59
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doggybottompatter🐕 :
He apologized for not planning or giving me anything for my birthday and now he asks me the day before or the morning of my bday what I want to do.
2026-07-17 20:09:21
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chozzywozzy96 :
Il forever be hurt
2026-07-17 21:08:30
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Tega Oluwabunmi :
Lack of Accountability 🥰
2026-07-22 17:25:53
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Den Gard :
The starting line rather than the finish line. 🎯
2026-07-21 07:51:49
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Kiki :
My husband has said “say you’re sorry”
2026-07-18 15:31:29
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amypalmer113 :
even when im curious with him he still gets angry with me. 😞
2026-07-17 22:12:46
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user5980627608762 :
Wow, talk about self unawareness.
2026-07-17 21:17:55
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tranqui :
👏👏👏👏👏👏
2026-07-17 18:44:32
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