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Friday 17 July 2026 19:14:35 GMT
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q.titania
✨Ren✨ :
There are emotional reasons to get married. There are legal reasons to get married. There are financial reasons to get married. There’s only one reason to not get married. That you don’t believe that you’re going to be with the person for the rest of your life. So I think he’s made his position clear.
2026-07-18 03:34:38
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mychemicallimerence
bring out the olives :
If marriage is nothing then it should be nothing to actually get married
2026-07-17 22:28:53
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sunshine4203
Sunshine :
if you're not married and your partner gets in an accident and needs someone to make medical decisions if you dont have a medical proxy paperwork set up then it goes to next of kin which can be parents and they can kick you out of the hospital and forbid you from seeing your partner no matter how long yall were/are together
2026-07-17 21:29:54
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hbrnew
Blue Shortcake :
He wants to lock her down with kids… but can’t commit to the “piece of paper”
2026-07-18 02:38:27
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mjcrane11
MJ Crane 🔻 :
Its all just a piece of paper unless it comes down to health insurance, life insurance, serious medical decisions, and in the case of a divorce (assets and ailmony).
2026-07-17 23:07:16
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themangoexpert
theMangoExpert :
He’ll understand marriage with a different woman 💀 she his right now woman and her staying just makes it harder on her not him.
2026-07-17 20:50:29
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commamderk710
Commamderk710 :
marriage is just a paper, theres really no reason to get married.
2026-07-17 19:31:55
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back2cait
Cait 🇨🇦 :
I don’t understand how people grew up watching the fight for the right to gay marriage and not understand what it means. Marriage is a legal protection to choose your family. In the right circumstance, marriage is safety. It’s a legal protection and it’s a medical choice.
2026-07-18 15:53:03
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doctorsamz
Dr Sam Zoranovich DC :
If he wanted to he would
2026-07-17 22:25:17
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crystalhenley553
crystalhenley553 :
it's fine to not want to get married, it's fine to want to get married. if at the start you were very clear you're in one camp and your partner is in the other, you're not compatible and lying and leading on is wrong.
2026-07-18 15:30:51
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crazymadalice
CrazyMadAlice🇨🇦 :
Why can’t people say what they mean and mean what they say and acknowledge that they’re not compatible in the first place instead he decided to waste four years of her life
2026-07-17 20:28:17
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lizpiper0
Liz piper :
I wish I heard this in my youth 4 years is a long time but the rest of your life is longer don't stay in bad relationships
2026-07-17 20:13:45
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hereaquiencolombia
hereaquiencolombia🍉 :
my sister bf did the same thing (7 years). at 3 year mark she sat down to have the talk and they seemed on the same page...to get married in the future. he even had her wasting her time looking for a rings for almost 2 years! to eventually says they he wants to have children but not get married, what?!?!! she left him!
2026-07-19 17:22:59
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justindemedeiros
Justin DeMedeiros :
It's OK not to want to get married. It's not OK to string someone along that does. These people have different goals, and that would be OK if one wasn't lying.
2026-07-18 15:05:27
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trhro5010
trhro5010 :
He’ll be married to the new gf within a year
2026-07-20 13:27:11
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kany.mw
Kanym :
she said day one she wanted to get married.
2026-07-18 11:15:25
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sahmjess35
🫶🦋JE𝐒𝐒🦋🫶 :
it's probably not that he doesn't understand the concept of marriage, he just doesn't see you as his wife. it's not against you and I'm sure you're a great person but you're not his person. don't put up with that and yes cut your losses. it could also be he doesn't see the point if you're just going to stay in the relationship so if you leave he might change his mind, either way I'd leave.
2026-07-23 18:29:07
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chnky.mixed
D :
It’s not that I don’t want to get married I don’t want a wedding but that’s just me
2026-07-17 23:31:47
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the.phoenix.queen
The Phoenix Queen :
If he wanted to, he would.
2026-07-18 01:06:04
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grumpy_squirrel_333
Grumpy_Squirrel_333 :
We were together over 10 years and happy to keep it like that, but COVID changed everything. We didn’t want our families making health decisions for us. Both of us have issues with our next of kin.
2026-07-17 20:30:16
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gonebbygone
🎰 :
I feel like I'm the only person that thinks being in a relationship for three years is a bit too early to get married
2026-07-17 19:24:32
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itsjoycenow
itsjoycenow :
If you’re not married and part ways, the woman usually is the one who gets screwed.
2026-07-17 23:19:23
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rn_20.20
Brittany, RN :
I mean 3 years together they finally move in at their age? He never wanted to marry her to begin with, but he wanted to date her and assumed eventually she would not ask about dating. I’ve been with my man for six months and we’ve already talked about getting a place and getting married. He never was going to marry her. He just wanted to waste her time.
2026-07-18 01:18:24
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leannebowler1
Leanne(uk) :
since being a little kid I've always said I don't want to get married so if i was seeing someone they would know at the beginning not be strung along
2026-07-17 19:27:28
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thesinfulbadger
TheSinfulBadger :
Don't crucify me for this but I do get his words. He's definitely just stringing her on but I don't get the point of getting married outside of the tax benefits. I am fully committed to my fiance and we are getting married in 3 months. I want to be with her for the rest of my life but I wouldn't be mad if we didn't get a mairrage certificate for the government
2026-07-17 22:27:39
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