@azazel.bezaliel: Replying to @c We don’t know whether he asked about sex before or after the invitation to the second date. While I agree with you that it would be weird for her to invite a man over for a second date to her place, if she wasn’t sure, and he had already voiced that he didn’t want sex, it’s also reasonable to assume that if she’s inviting a man over to her place that sex could have been on her mind. Nobody can guarantee sex though. She has the right to change her mind, just as much as he had the right to change his. But if it’s his boundary to have sex on the second date, and he changed his mind because she wasn’t sure, then he is responsible for canceling the date. He should not accept a date from someone that violates his own boundary. And if he changed his mind, he should not attempt to manipulate the other person to comply with his boundary. Just cancel. #CriticalThinking #voicememoguy #predatorybehabior #narcissist #Dating

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In either timeline, clarifying before the visit was the responsible thing to do. If he had already explained that sexual compatibility mattered, it was reasonable to ask why she was still inviting him while remaining unsure. If she invited him first, raising it before he came gave her the chance to say no without him already being in her home. “I don’t know” is uncertainty, not a final no, and one clarification is not coercion. You are implying motives like rape anxiety, dehumanization, emotional manipulation that are nowhere in the voicemail. Or maybe I just can’t see them
2026-07-17 20:42:58
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