@psychrypt8: Who The Avoidant Actually Ends Up With And It Is Not Who You Think The avoidant does not end up with the person who loved them the most. They end up with the person who asked for the least. And that is the saddest truth no one says out loud.

MiReina ❌ :

And that’s how you become the phantom ex.

The Vanta Rook :

They're weak af

mbee143 :

Nurseeelaay :

Well if it makes him happy. I’m all for it . Go be with people who doesn’t require a better version of you. 🤷🏾‍♀️🙂‍↕️

Mivok :

no confrontation, no introspection, no accountability and never seen.

Victoria Vargas :

I wish them happiness

Jeri :

So they want fake love which can mean more trauma smh. They want to get cheated on, a gold digger, and someone who doesn’t care? That’s so ass backwards. Good luck!

Redstringtheory :

Hmmmmm. People need to understand this: Avoidant discard doesn’t just end a relationship ... it can nearly end a person.

Mikedasike :

Why u reading my brain 🧠

Ary :

But will they finally be happy

Gwen :

I’m an avoidant who had an 8 year relationship w an avoidant. Our relationship had no real sustenance. I am currently dating an anxiously attached man and he wants to talk and be w me 24/7. We’ve been together over a 1 year. It’s easier dating someone who puts in more emotional effort. We actually have a connection beyond physical unlike my first relationship.

Jamie💜 :

no he won't. I never asked for anything besides basics like take a shower and pay your bills. the bar doesnt get lower than that.

cdjames84 :

Is this supposed to make us feel better for the damage we endured? Let’s call it what it is…avoidants are awful because they are selfish as hell and refuse to heal which just causes pain to the ones that genuinely love them

MajestyInTheDark :

So it’s a rigged game. 😢

morocla :

“The saddest truth that no one says out loud?” I think everybody who’s been with an avoidant knows that truth.

77Rondan Shop :

I wish her the best, she deserves the world, but I have too much self respect to continue like this.

Favor :

true the more womans they find that's willing to accept the games he likes to play the better it is 😏

The Red Ashes of Eden :

That’s no fun. Wouldn’t someone get bored? I could never!

Jesscause210 :

Well that's actually better for the both of us. I don't want who dosen't want me.

NayiinBoo :

yuuuppp, Hes going to be the next Justin Bieber!!!!

Mansa Yah Yah :

May Allah protect her.. fi amanillah 🤲🏽

just_bobbyy :

Wow that is so true

Mhenggay :

Sad , heartbreaking 💔 😭