@fr0ttage_cheese: (edit my pronouns are he/him and thank you guys for being kind and supportive in the comments) i guess it counts because i said no but i still caved after he only asked twice but idk i still feel like it's my own fault #poop #vent
If you said yes and acted like you enjoyed it then the other party had no way of knowing
2026-08-03 10:10:18
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⊹܀ ᴋᴀsᴘᴇʀ ܀⊹ :
does it still count if she didnt stop asking until I said yes
2026-07-31 14:34:48
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_rawM3AT :
if you said yes and complied, it doesnt, if you were manipulated into saying yes it does
2026-07-20 11:09:10
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☆🍃Ivan🍃☆ :
peer pressure (aka saying no until you feel forced to say yes) is still sa
2026-07-18 03:53:16
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user6076648312847 :
Depends heavily on the situation. If you said no, then of course it counts. But realistically if you didn't, if you were pretending to enjoy it, how were they supposed to know you didn't want it? I'm sorry you felt uncomfortable, I really am.
2026-07-31 03:22:47
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𝕯𝖗𝖚𝖓𝖐𝖊𝖓 𝕯𝖗𝖆𝖌𝖔𝖓 :
does it still count if i said yes but didn't know what it was
2026-07-28 10:24:21
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isagi>>>fiction :
People cant read minds
2026-08-02 15:35:17
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gözde :
yall have to realize people can’t read minds
2026-07-20 18:26:21
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zeppeshery :
no..?
2026-08-05 17:15:58
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Selena 𖣂💫 :
if you felt pressured into it after saying no and then acted as if you liked it, it still counts. it’s called fawning.
2026-07-18 04:14:14
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shenugglemyjuts :
uhhh not on his end, yes it’s traumatizing for you but it would be absolutely despicable to claim fault of the other person
2026-08-24 02:44:21
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zᶻ૮˶- ﻌ -˶ა⌒)ᦱ :
If you said no (even just once) and that person continued to do what they did, yes.im so sorry
2026-07-18 02:02:12
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angel :
ok w the initial text on the video, no it doesn’t. if you’ve consented and ur actively acting like you’re enjoying it, the other person won’t know your discomfort. they aren’t a mind reader. but w the caption and the fact that you said no yet they pressured u into saying yes? then yeah, that counts
2026-08-06 18:07:42
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Wedzinga :
Bro I hate these comments. It's not always a directly a yes or no. Situations like these are gray areas, you're completely allowed to feel bad about it and it is questionable. You're completely valid but straight up labeling is hard especially if not much convincing or manipulation happened. It doesn't NEED a definite label, people need to accept that these situations can fall into s gray area.
2026-07-20 21:26:57
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ona :
if you agreed without being pressured, it’s not
2026-07-31 13:00:34
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ksrmic :
if you said an enthusiastic yes when said person asked once without coercion then you cannot hold them accountable even if you fawned, however if you showed slight discomfort, was asked repeatedly, coerced, manipulated, didn’t say an enthusiastic yes or any of the above then it did count
2026-07-31 21:19:59
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lyn 🎲 :
if they have to ask more than once for you to say yes, then its sa
2026-08-01 21:00:44
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Sisi :
if you have no indication that you didn't want it then it's not their fault BUT that doesn't make the pain any less valid. forcing yourself to endure something you don't actually want feels like just as much of a violation and it's totally valid to feel bad about it/ have trauma because of it.
2026-08-03 09:41:44
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itsbuzzing :
i don't think so, if you didn't communicate with him/her about your true feelings and masked them as if you liked it, they couldn't know.
2026-08-03 14:46:57
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stella :
well depends if they knew you didn't want it
2026-07-31 13:27:24
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𐔌 🍭 αηgєℓ.ᐟ 🐹꒱🎀 :
No becuase he or she had no idea…?
2026-08-04 10:49:27
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ᢉ𐭩 𐔌 𝓒arlos ❤︎ 𝓒asper .ᐟ :
you said no and he persisted, that is coercion and you are valid 🫶🏾
2026-07-18 08:54:13
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Sagii :
Does it still count if I said yes immediately bc I was too afraid he doesn’t love me anymore
2026-08-02 05:47:39
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Katerine :
i dont think you can hold them accountable unless there was coercion
2026-08-02 10:15:38
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Skylerrr🎧🦴 :
yes, if you said yes without being fotced to then yes it is not sa
2026-07-30 11:04:51
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