@fw_wisdom7: Some people are entirely comfortable in their dysfunction. One of the most exhausting things in life is trying to fix someone who doesn't see a problem with their own behavior. You advise them, you support them, and you stay patient but nothing changes. Change requires self-awareness. If they don't see their behavior as the problem, they will never feel the need to change it. You end up becoming emotionally drained because they aren't looking for transformation; they only want comfort. And the dangerous part is this: the more you keep excusing their bad behavior, the more normalized it becomes. This is why the Bible warns us in Proverbs 23:9, "Do not speak to fools, for they will scorn your prudent words." Not every broken person is ready to be healed. Some people enjoy being rescued but fiercely resist being transformed, and that cycle will eventually drain anyone trying to save them. Sometimes, the most mature thing you can do is stop taking responsibility for another adult's choices. May God give you the wisdom to know where to invest your energy, and the strength to walk away when it's time. In Jesus' name. Amen. 🛡️🙏 #fw_wisdom #singles #Relationship #christians #fypシ

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