that's why i don't get into relationships nor think about getting married or having kids because they messed up my brain and how im wired to the point where im incapable of raising children or living with a man. i cannot be handled nor can i handle myself. and thats something ill have to carry with for the rest of my life.
2026-07-23 22:34:33
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Princess_Cleverish :
I joke how I can't remember most of my childhood but part of me is scared of what I might find
2026-07-27 08:34:31
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claire ۶ৎ˖⚢ .° :
i can’t fully connect with my parents because i genuinely cannot understand how they were ok raising me the way they did
2026-07-26 07:38:24
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🍃 :
and it turns out im avoidant because of that. i dont wish that on anyone.
2026-07-24 01:20:08
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angelita 💕 :
Like, the idea of commitment and marriage is so scary to me. What if they turn out like the men my mother loved? What if I have children and I hurt them? What ifs haunt me so much
2026-07-26 03:30:29
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bri ᢉ𐭩 :
i genuinely feel like i’m destined to be alone and not be with or around people cause how intense my emotions are. i’m so sensitive & cry over every little thing it’s so damn exhausting. i wanna be normal, not broken. i wanna feel things normally and not so extreme to the point i feel too much.
2026-07-28 16:40:39
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•┈┈┈••✦ ♡ ✦••┈┈┈• :
Ref take me out now
2026-07-18 10:32:34
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️ :
i’m trying to fix everything in me that they have ruined
2026-07-26 15:12:07
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n :
literally i always feel like an afterthought in everything
2026-07-26 15:36:13
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safi 🐞 :
I talk to parents who want to adopt and bring this up all the time- attachment styles are formed in early years if not acknowledged and treated with the appropriate care it can cause major damage to future romantic relationships
2026-07-18 21:56:29
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keysha :
i can't talk to them without the feeling of resentment and no matter what I can't change it
2026-08-02 20:21:21
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user8763105893048 :
its cruel how my family impacts my life sm
2026-07-22 12:20:27
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𝄞𝓪𝓵𝓮𝓶 𓋹 :
its like my brain was rewired in a different way and I'll never be able to be the same again
2026-07-25 23:41:03
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hats :
i dont tgink yoy understand this is the most relatable video i’ve ever seen
2026-08-02 02:03:56
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Seal :
basically
2026-07-28 22:55:15
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⋆。˚꒰ঌ ᴄʜᴀʀ ໒꒱˚。⋆ :
for the longest time i was scared to get into a relationship because i didn’t want it to turn into my parents’ relationship
2026-07-28 19:04:25
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simo :
i think, it's because i couldn't be free to be myself as a child that now i act like it and i still wanna try to be
2026-07-24 17:28:41
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jaein.97 :
I hate how true it is
2026-07-26 09:41:58
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leti🪷 :
that’s a sensitive topic for me
2026-08-02 09:54:49
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fvazin :
i don’t hate them but God why am i to be the one to heal myself from the wounds they brought upon me?
2026-08-01 12:01:03
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kaylajames24 :
trying to rewire my brain has truly been the hardest thing I’ve ever done, and I still have so much growing to do. Don’t feel like you’ll be stuck in this forever.
2026-07-29 15:43:53
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zurπ :
I don't like feeling like I'm playing the victim; maybe it's just my mom's words, but it's really sad how your environment affects so much of your life, and breaking away from that is even harder man
2026-07-28 21:22:47
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Filana🩷 :
It’s why I have bpd
2026-07-27 00:14:27
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clara :
Joking about it helps me to live more happily
2026-08-01 23:29:11
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spidermannn_006 :
the other day, someone asked me why I don’t date. I didn’t know how to tell them it’s because the only love I know is violence, and I need to unlearn that cycle in myself, as well as multiple other roads of related trauma, before I could ask someone to even consider loving me. I have to know how to hold on without someone anchoring me down first, and how to exist freely as well. I couldn’t ask someone to step into that, into my mess, much less love me for it. I ended up saying it’s cause im not interested right now, living at home and all, and they left me alone.
2026-07-31 09:49:03
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