I just want to explain how I used Yin and Yang in my Ms. Q&A answer yesterday, because I couldn't elaborate it in just 30 seconds.
I think yin and yang is often understood as accepting both sides equally. It is, but I believe that it also teaches that opposing forces can coexist (like friends and enemies, good and bad), but coexistence doesn't always mean agreement. You can acknowledge another person's existence without giving them a place in your life. True balance is knowing when to understand both sides and when to stand firm on your principles.
What I mean is that not every opposite is meant to be reconciled, and choosing one side doesn't erase the existence of the other. Balance is not about being neutral toward everyone. It's about staying true to your values while recognizing that every story has more than one side. Also, not being friends with your friend's enemy doesn't automatically mean they have to become your enemy too. You can be civil with them, and being civil doesn't have to take the form of friendship.
Just like Yin and Yang, you can never truly appreciate the value of friendship without understanding the meaning of an enemy. One gives meaning to the other.
I am sorry if it sounded wrong, I just applied the concept in a real life scenario. That you should always know the black and white in everything. And black and white doesn't have gray (neutral) area. Because overlapping (mixing white and black) will lost the balance and will cause chaos.
2026-07-19 12:16:44
779
Kecie Rutagines :
At pumunta sa comsec para isearch ang meaning ng yin yang😁
2026-07-19 03:42:53
2
IG | @its.vini.lexie :
QUOTE OF THE DAY "a friend to all is a friend to none" 💅✨
2026-07-18 07:51:31
11647
Angel :
husaych
2026-07-24 09:37:10
1
Engr. Khaleesi :
wala ako pipiliin sa kanila, away nila yan, matanda na sila.
2026-07-18 08:23:53
6514
zazukei :
sorry but NOT choosing a side is CHOOSING a side.
2026-07-23 12:55:33
0
n i x x :
but yin-yang is balance hindi naman yon panig 🥹
2026-07-18 09:34:35
1033
😺 :
if you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor -Desmond Tutu
2026-07-18 15:46:30
313
Phililia :
Very swiftie sa a friend to all is a friend to none
2026-07-18 08:15:28
946
Air🍓 :
“When u are young they assume you know nothing”
2026-07-18 09:19:18
218
Sekreuz Navarus636 :
carla really spilled with this one 💀 trying to play both sides doesn't make you the "good guy," it just means you're protecting your own comfort. real loyalty means you actually have to draw a line, take the risk, and stand ten toes down for the person you love, even if it means closing the door on someone else. period.
2026-07-18 13:10:50
105
Jovel :
Apaka powerful ng ending! Full context. Kabog!!
2026-07-18 07:50:51
137
iviconshi :
I feel like hindi kakaibiganin pero hindi na rin makikisawsaw dahil away nila ‘yun.
2026-07-18 08:50:40
133
tanjirosenpai :
friend to all is friend to none, i disagree sir. hindi ba pwedeng mabait ka at marunong makisama?
2026-07-19 15:35:04
8
Keikhel99 :
Bakit ko kakaibiganin kaaway ng kaibigan ko? Syempre hindi, pero hindi ibig sabihen non aawayin kona din yung kaaway nya
2026-07-21 05:02:27
8
IG | @its.vini.lexie :
very tricky yung sagot, slay na slay ang pagdeliver, powerful!!
2026-07-18 07:15:31
280
Bòss.Ye 🤘🏼 :
if friend ko na sila both before their conflict, wala ako kakampihan. pero ung diko friend tas kaaway ng friend ko tas makakasalamuha ko, HARD PASS. :)
2026-07-18 16:07:13
79
ef_yu :
it’s less about choosing sides and more about whether someone’s actions reflect the values they claim to have. A moral compass isn’t just what you say, it’s what you consistently choose to support or tolerate.
2026-07-19 01:52:25
13
xoxo :
how can u be friends to someone who did your friend dirty? especially if u knew about it. pero kung kasalanan din naman ng friend mo, then thatʼs the time where u act as a real friend at sabihin saan sya mali
2026-07-18 14:12:28
8
Zillionaire🪙 :
Bilang isang tao, naniniwala akong ang pakikipagkaibigan ay hindi dapat nakabatay lamang sa kung sino ang kaaway ng ating kaibigan, kundi sa pagkatao ng bawat isa. Hindi natin kontrolado ang nakaraan ng ibang tao, pero kontrolado natin kung paano tayo makitungo nang may respeto at integridad. Gayunpaman, bilang tunay na kaibigan, mahalaga ring isaalang-alang ang damdamin ng ating kaibigan, maging bukas sa komunikasyon, at iwasang gumawa ng bagay na makasisira sa tiwala. Sa huli, ang tunay na sukatan ay hindi kung sino ang kaibigan mo, kundi kung paano ka naging mabuting tao sa lahat ng iyong pakikitungo.
2026-07-20 05:50:15
6
White Cat :
Always choose God above all else. That’s it.
2026-07-18 09:22:57
15
Boss Jamal :
Bat si Leni naging kakampi BBm?
2026-07-18 08:42:39
17
To see more videos from user @abscbn, please go to the Tikwm
homepage.