@phoenixpathway: He Rewrites History To Escape Accountability He isn't forgetting what happened during your arguments. He is fighting for the version of reality where he owes you absolutely nothing. He knows you care about the truth while he only cares about escaping consequences. By holding his false version long enough he trains you to doubt your own memory just to end the conflict. Stop negotiating what you know is real. He isn't confused about the facts. He has just decided your reality doesn't matter to him. #relationshipadvice #datingtipsforwomen #feminineenergy #knowyourworth
He is great 90% of the time, but if I ever feel disrespected and want to talk about it, he gets very defensive and starts talking/yelling over me and it always escalates into a fight. I can’t get a word in. Nothing gets resolved. The disrespect just multiples until I walk away and stay silent. Then he acts like nothing happened. Right back to saying how much he loves me.. 🤷🏻♀️
2026-08-02 15:42:45
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ee.roper :
Finally did the damn thing. Wild man
2026-08-02 06:07:48
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minnie74house :
Pre-defeated. ✅ trained ✅ controlled✅his pov is the only pov✅ I see it now. I see.
2026-07-18 17:58:17
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1974oc :
Mine is we will talk about this later and then never do. And if I bring it up I’m ruining a good night. Nothing ever gets resolved and I feel completely unheard.
2026-07-25 12:08:40
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Samantha :
you just explained my situation word for word
2026-07-23 08:12:43
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mindy :
🤍what actually happened vs what he wanted to have happened..........
2026-07-19 04:37:06
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ArchiaSophia 🇨🇦 :
“He” is my dad .. I’m in my 50’s .. he’s been telling people he’s “embarrassed’ that I have CPTSD, complains behind my back that I had daddy issues.. like it’s a flex. (Daddy issues are a father’s failure, not a child’s). .. gives parenting advice to other grown men with daughters. 🙄🥱😔
2026-07-18 16:43:53
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Rams_Eagles :
This hits so HARD right now. Just a few minutes ago I got a text message from him that was a link to a YT Short. It was about safety in a marriage when bringing hard things up (amongst other things). This is almost laughable to me. I’m no longer “meeting his needs,” so now all of a sudden we need to communicate about hard things!!! YES, WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN WHEN I HAVE CLEARLY COMMUNICATED (some times I am sure that I could have done better) ABOUT “HARD THINGS” FOR THE LAST 25 YEARS, only to be met with indifference or mocking?!?!?! 🥺🥺🥺
2026-07-19 04:08:35
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audrey_634 :
Your emotional intelligence is so refreshing 😌it makes me more upset because this is so rare in men nowadays like where can I find someone with this level of awareness and accountability
2026-07-22 17:27:16
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Redefining Freedom :
When I realized I had to either not bother or plan to lose, it felt like too much of a compromise.
2026-07-18 16:30:02
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Miriam🌹 :
I really appreciate how you break things down. Your videos help me identify what was really going on all those times I was left in a state of confusion in those exact scenarios you describe. I was trying to be fair but I became *trained* & I don't like the sound of that!! That's not who I want to be & won't let myself get into this predicament again so THANK YOU for the clarity that lends to my motivation & planning to GTFO.
2026-07-18 17:04:19
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Amanda Magrino :
It’s crazy how two adults can have the same situation w two completely diff. versions literally just experienced this last night
2026-07-23 15:35:41
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SunnySideUp 🍳 :
I thought I was crazy, so I just stopped talking to him. 20 years.
2026-07-18 17:45:51
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Daniella La Bella :
Nothing like gaslighting my own damn self…. 🥴
2026-07-18 18:53:18
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Mandy :
I needed to see this one today… thank you. 💗
2026-07-18 13:44:01
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Shelly B :
Sooo many times he disagrees with me because he didn’t really listen to me when I was talking and gets it all wrong, completely forgets what I have said OR tells me no and then reiterates what I have said but slightly different. I’ll tell him that he just disagreed with me yet he’s saying what I said, how is this possible?
2026-07-18 17:47:28
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Amberb111999 :
Mine is always why are you bringing up the past or I don’t always do that. It’s not the past because it’s a pattern he chooses not to connect the dots as a continuation and sees them as isolated events I should just get over. I’m not supposed to use his actions to decide his character and I should always see him in a better light than he actually gives me. He never takes accountability and lives in make believe world to keep it that way. Somehow his actions are always less of an issue than my reaction.
2026-07-18 19:42:00
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21trench21 :
I am deep in this now.
2026-07-19 17:48:17
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chainsawpants :
wow. this is very helpful.
2026-07-18 15:07:19
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crystal97231 :
Ouch
2026-07-18 13:51:18
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user6564909255395 :
The reason why the relationship lasted for as long as it did was because of women over functioning, carrying the emotional labor by regulating him while he takes no accountability for hurting you or acknowledging any wrong doing. Once you see it you can’t unsee it. Thank you
2026-07-19 00:13:05
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🍒 Kassie Jett 🍒 :
💯💯💯
2026-07-18 14:39:44
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Meagan 🇨🇦 :
😳😡😡😡
2026-07-18 14:57:13
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Just_Chels :
♥️♥️♥️
2026-07-18 13:34:08
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