Poorna Bell
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Saturday 18 July 2026 19:35:15 GMT
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April Grace Dear :
I know social media has its faults but we are so lucky to be living in a time when women of all ages can communicate honestly with eachother. Being able to hear many honest life experiences and learn varying realities is a blessing women have never had at this breadth and depth before, thank you for sharing ♥️
2026-07-19 05:24:52
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Tabo 💕 :
This is why I think it’s so important to befriend women 10-30 years older than you. I’ve learnt so much from older women and their shared wisdom makes me feel confident in my future.
2026-07-19 09:05:13
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Qoy :
High self esteem (not performative ego) is such an underrated golden nugget in a partner. It means every action comes from genuine choice, not desperation, ego, manipulation, performance. It’s a stable beautiful place to be loved from. Being loved by someone who actually likes who they are is the only way to go.
2026-07-19 13:23:54
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Kinneret 🇨🇦 :
The bar is in hell. The only way we can raise the bar is by women collectively agreeing that we will all hold men to high standards.
2026-07-19 03:15:13
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Becky Perry :
37 and haven’t life partnered with a man cause I refuse mediocrity.
2026-07-19 09:02:20
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SieSimone :
I’m a nurse. Ladies you need to ask yourself if he will change you when you’re sick or come to grab the care team and leave you to strangers
2026-07-20 13:55:45
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🤍✨ C h e l s e a ✨🤍 :
Also relationships change over time, have you chosen someone who is open to change? Not just physical, but emotional, financial, mental.
2026-07-19 11:50:30
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Luke_add :
Yes I’m excited for my girl to grow into a very confident 40 year old woman in 20 years, she is back bone of our family holding the house down and raising the kids whilst I work
2026-07-21 14:21:11
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inthebusiness_ofyourbusiness :
the biggest marker of a lasting partnership is being able to problem solve together and negotiate a better dynamic when things are not working. end of story, nothing else is permanent
2026-07-19 06:17:39
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Lin Mei Ling :
For the first 7 years of marriage, we were childless and lived a parallel life happily. He was so proud of me being such an independent woman. After kids came along, I was still raising 2 kids + 1 man child independently, without help. I am now happily divorced and will NEVER get married again !!
2026-07-21 15:15:32
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Philippa :
"he has his money I have my money" that's good unless you have kids and watch your money and career drain away and he thrives financially. you'll never catch up
2026-07-19 10:08:55
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RyanneReads :
As someone who had the self esteem of a kumquat in my 20s, i can (to some extent) understand why my partner continued to be who he was to me. I’m sure there were times where i disgusted him bc i was so willing to lay down and die in order for him to stay. It’s not attractive in either realm 😩😂
2026-07-19 15:59:46
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Eleanor ⭐️ :
me listening to this turning it up so my boyfriend can hear it in the other room Lol
2026-07-19 05:21:42
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zeezee.girl :
I think younger women lead with their hearts too much. We need to think logically and clearly whilst deciding on a partner. We need to plan ahead and ensure we put our needs first
2026-07-21 12:46:11
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Apocalypsebitch 🇨🇦 :
THANK YOU. I feel like I'm going insane when I tell my friends statistics about domestic labour imbalance (mind you, I am not specifically talking about THEIR partners) they will still use it as an opportunity to pivot to "Well MY partner does..." and then list the most basic requirement of a human being
2026-07-19 03:19:12
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Rania Hawi :
I love your necklace
2026-07-21 03:09:21
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bnyparis :
Im getting a wife ngl
2026-07-21 15:33:41
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deathdual :
what I will say is that the younger men (under 30) were majority raised by working mothers and in a far more feminist culture and the ones I've seen do make a better effort at equal partnership. Those older, even in their early 30's the woman is still doing the majority of the household work
2026-07-21 15:39:44
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Getfitwithzai_ :
Someone made an interesting point: men often weren’t intentionally taught how to be good partners or husbands, while girls are socialised from a young age to prepare for marriage and to care for others. They’re taught to nurture, compromise, cook, clean, and constantly consider the needs of a future partner. But it raises an important question - who prepares men to show up in the same way? And more importantly, who teaches women that they, too, deserve to be cared for? Who helps the woman?
2026-07-19 12:16:54
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gemyjay :
I was searching for this constantly in my 20's & 30's & eventually ended up telling myself that it doesn't exist because I could not find a single guy that met those needs. I was also being told by friends that "this is just how it is". I was never happy. Now 42, met the guy who is the baseline for me, what I've been looking for since I was in my 20's, it exists but he agrees he wasn't this person in his 20's, it took him til he was mid-40's to get to this person himself.
2026-07-19 01:11:59
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vbambi.290 :
Long term relationships are about compatibility and similarities, not just “enjoying life” and doing anything and everything to “have fun”😂😂 never mind the domestic labor, emotional labor required in every serious relationship
2026-07-19 05:06:58
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JezebelSpirit :
Esp true when dating after 40. There's a good chance your partner has an ex & kids. Pay attn to how they navigate those relationships, even if they are good to you. Are they respectful of their ex's time? Do they lie to or manipulate their ex/kids? Do they constantly justify their behavior? How do they speak about their ex/kids when they're not around? Are they truly as involved in parenting as they claim to be?
2026-07-19 00:01:25
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ℳ𝒶𝓇𝒾𝒶 𝒥ℴ𝓈ℯ 🪽✨ :
So grateful to be living in a time where I can just get advice like this straight on my FEED?? 🙏🙏🙏
2026-07-19 07:11:49
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digitalgab.mp3 :
My ex with get mad at me for getting prescription glasses, massages for back pain, new makeup when I was feeling low. Miss him so bad but the points here make it clear that 20 years down the line would have been hell
2026-07-19 18:36:38
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Habiba Katsha :
Listening very closely as a woman in my early thirties
2026-07-18 21:59:48
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