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goingtocarolina
Going to Carolina ⛵️ :
I’m all for integration as long as there is support. Because my daughter was evacuated from her kindergarten classroom due to a violent autistic child multiple times. How is that fair to her? It’s not. And her education matters too
2026-07-18 23:11:04
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justagirlfromli
JustagirlfromLI :
As a parent of an autistic child, full-time inclusion doesn't work. It impacts every child in the class, not just the child with autism. Should they have exposure in a regular classroom setting? Yes. Just not all day, everyday.
2026-07-19 21:08:11
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joce_e
Jocelyn :
I have empathy for her, but I disagree.
2026-07-19 06:04:13
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andreasupportneedsmom
AuDhdmom :
this only works with the proper support and that hardly happens
2026-07-19 00:01:33
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laurrra_1
laurrra_1 :
It is too disruptive for other children and makes it harder to focus and learn…sorry but no way!!
2026-07-19 20:01:43
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cc249301
cc :
this can only work for a higher functioning child and one that doesn’t have severe behaviors
2026-07-20 00:45:02
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agreen924
Amie :
As someone who has taught special ed for 13 years this is 100% WRONG! The kids in my special needs classroom learn and talk just like gen Ed kids.
2026-07-19 04:42:52
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woweeeeme
Haha :
What about the other kids in the class? Nobody ever thinks about that. Think about if your child was asked every day to help Johnny, Susie or whoever because they have a disability to make them become bette. When does that child get additional instruction to become better?
2026-07-19 22:52:56
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jiaaaaaaaaaaaa23
jiaaaaaaaaaaaa23 :
She’s saying this because she’s not there to actually witness the day ins and day out it just sounds well in theory but no this is not a good fit for all kids with disabilities.
2026-07-20 03:42:20
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penguin87326
Here for the fudge vids :
This only works if there is proper support. Otherwise everyone learns nothing at all.
2026-07-18 20:07:19
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absolutely_emma
emma| boy mom | teacher :
I’m all for inclusion! Absolutely love this! But with that being said, you also want your children to hear educational content on THEIR level and work up to more because if not, they won’t ever grow to age appreciate standards. For example, you have a 5th grader on a 1st grade reading level. You want to include them as much as possible on 5th grade curriculum (OF COURSE- INCLUSION!) but you also want them to be able to work on those 1st grade skills to be able to move up to 2nd and on and on. I’m going on my 3rd year in special education and I love when my kiddos are able to join class with their peers. But i also feel that they should be pulled getting help they need!
2026-07-19 21:49:13
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melly1577
Mm :
On paper this looks fine but it’s actually not realistic or doable. As a teacher of 18 years, the integration model doesn’t work.
2026-07-19 19:02:04
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smm1222
Sarah :
Some kids need self contained classes! Nothing wrong with it!
2026-07-19 02:43:52
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bella_cin
Bella Cin :
This is a fairytale! Inclusion only looks like that in places with sufficient funding and staff to manage behaviors and support learning.
2026-07-19 22:57:19
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affarnen
PJ414 :
But it has to be fair for other students as well, some kids can’t be in gen ed without proper support and most schools don’t have support
2026-07-19 05:43:55
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tickety_tokety
Boy & Dog Mom :
Disagree… my nephew with Down Syndrome was in a life skills class where he was taught to read a bus map, make change, cook simple meals. Another kid like him was sitting through regular classes learning about the war of 1812. Now my nephew has a job and lives on his own ( with supervision ). Having classes tailored to their needs teaches them the skills they need.
2026-07-19 17:24:56
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dovahkiitty
Dovah :
Until it disrupts the other children’s learning on a daily basis. I love inclusion, I think it’s so important. I also think that one kids behavior should not limit the rest of the class’ learning daily.
2026-07-19 14:11:06
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ginabeanaevans
Gina Evans❌️ :
80% of schools do not have support for severe special needs. public school isn't a good fit for everyone
2026-07-19 02:59:22
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allure_cosplay
Allure_cosplay 🇨🇦 :
as a teacher....if I dont have support I am spending all day managing autistic behavior and not teaching the other kids... so unfortunately I disagree because....we dont have support so the whole class sufferers because I'm making sure the autistic kid doesn't get hurt 😕
2026-07-19 12:51:13
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ragweed37
ragweed :
Nope nope and more nope
2026-07-19 06:41:46
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sh987655
Sh987 :
As a sped teacher, this doesn’t always work. A lot of my students mainstream into a Gen Ed, but it’s also my job to facilitate the students talking to each other. I think Laura gets a lot wrong on Autism and disabilities. Studies are actually showing integration does more harm than good. I just got a student from Los Angeles who were in one of these classes she’s speaking of and Ong this little guy. The anxiety he has from being with those neurotypical students. It’s so overwhelming for a lot of these special needs students.
2026-07-19 16:12:32
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krysta.summa
Krysta| Model and Pageant Girl :
I think you should speak for you and your kids and not kids over all
2026-07-19 08:29:20
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kikiken81
kikiken81 :
I have a child with ASD. I think integration is great as long as it’s not at the detriment of the other kids learning. It needs to be fully supported so teachers can still teach.
2026-07-19 05:04:33
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michellephx80
Menopause-ish :
Support is pivotal. I see kids “integrated” into Gen ed but don’t have the support they need and really struggle.
2026-07-18 23:02:53
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luxlifemom
Luxlife4life :
It’s unfair to the other kids and the teachers
2026-07-19 18:43:06
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