VibesandValuePodcast
Region: GB
Saturday 18 July 2026 22:46:54 GMT
136451
5019
195
2709
Music
Download
Comments
amalreadytiredx :
“Playing the long game” aka manipulating your wife
2026-07-19 09:08:56
1200
~ :
yeah safe i’m never getting married. this is genuinely how men think ??
2026-07-19 11:06:27
823
Sophy :
So you don’t care about the hardship your wife went through you’d rather manipulate her 6 months later 💀🤔 that’s crazy
2026-07-19 11:26:54
405
🍫 :
Respect the boundaries!!
2026-07-19 10:25:18
468
Aisha :
This is why I prefer to be single
2026-07-19 09:52:48
100
Miski (Mia) :
He just described a coercive and manipulative marriage and this is truly the scariest part because they don’t see anything wrong with that 😳
2026-07-20 21:29:53
8
Coco 🎀 :
They say they they understand that It's traumatic experience (not for everyone) but still don't respect their choice for not wanting more. Very odd
2026-07-19 08:01:50
223
Ayanbela/psychologist🇦🇿🇮🇳 :
basically he is saying she is just moody or emotionally i will wait for 6 months and if she doesnt want child then he will threaten her with marrying a second wife
2026-07-19 08:39:40
74
ma974 :
If she’s done then she’s done, ultimately it’s her decision at the end she’s the one making the sacrifice not you.
2026-07-20 08:55:27
17
@Nezra♡ :
The AUDACITY!!!!!
2026-07-19 20:45:55
23
Aliya :
I chuckled when he said 6 months later😂not even 2 yrs later
2026-07-19 20:00:53
43
Nedstark🐺👑 :
Then she’s done bro. If she doesn’t want to it’s her choice and you have to compromise.
2026-07-19 10:03:31
129
Nita :
Nah I’m tying those tubes and not even telling anybody my body my choice fr
2026-07-19 08:22:41
75
ashwaqteeyna :
That’s crazy actually. If y’all could feel pregnancy, 9 months of none sleep, then labour? Y’all MEN could NEVER! And honestly this topic should be discussed before getting married how much kids y’all would want. And if your fine with 1 then later tell her you want more then that’s your problem.
2026-07-19 10:34:25
96
Naynay_nix :
Men think they are the prize
2026-07-20 01:45:33
85
deqadiini :
Yall are crazy ladies! As a mom of three kids and the first being a traumatic one, he’s right. Time heals and more likely tha not she would want another one just to give her first a sibling.
2026-07-19 10:23:02
15
Sister92 :
He said 6 months 😂 that’s nothing.
2026-07-19 06:49:59
72
No name History :
They manipulate so much. If he broke his leg and she asks one year after, can you pls broke your other leg for me, he will never say yes
2026-07-19 18:12:02
30
⃟ :
i’m a man and don’t want kids. i’d be the happiest if she says she doesn’t even want kids to begin with
2026-07-20 02:52:47
24
Ifka375 :
Was with him until he said 6 months later. 6 months is being patient?
2026-07-19 09:51:19
7
L’Avar ad-Dagistani :
then he ﷺ said: 'Marry the one who is fertile and loving, for I will boast of your great numbers.‘
2026-07-19 08:16:36
7
VibesandValuePodcast :
I think my wording in the clip came across differently than I intended. The discussion was about a situation where, during a marriage, my wife changes her mind about how many children she wants. My point wasn’t that I would leave if that happened. Quite the opposite. Marriage is about patience, understanding, and working through difficult moments together. If, in that moment, she felt she didn’t want any more children, I would respect how she was feeling, continue supporting her, and revisit the conversation later when we were both in a better place to discuss it. These are big life decisions that deserve time, compassion, and communication—not rushed decisions or divorce. If you’d like the full context, I’d really appreciate you watching the complete podcast. And I’d genuinely love to hear your thoughts on the topic ❤️
2026-07-19 10:58:50
11
To see more videos from user @vibesandvaluepodcast, please go to the Tikwm
homepage.
