@storytimeaitha: AITAH? My (39F) Ex husband (37M) is insisting I change my last name back to my maiden name because his new fiancé (24F) feels it will be awkward for her and I to have the same last name. AITAH for refusing to change it? Story and Update #aita #reddit_tiktok #redditreading #redditstorytime #fypシ゚viral
And changing your na.e will mess up your credit, not worth it
2026-09-09 00:15:18
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LostExploring :
if it bothered him that much he can take his fiancé s last name..
2026-07-23 20:36:50
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EL 😊 :
When divorcing my son’s father, I was going to change my last name back to my maiden, but then he told me I had too. So I kept his to piss him off. 😁 Definitely NTA. She has a better reason than I did.
2026-07-19 11:06:57
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Lisha :
It’s her children’s last name.
2026-08-10 23:16:53
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Sasha fiercest :
Dating for 3 years—he’s 39 and she’s 24🤨 sooo 21 (prob 20 when they met) and 36–girlllll
2026-07-19 03:31:32
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auntiejude :
No. Especially with kids.
2026-07-19 00:36:17
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Woody-Woodster :
He can take her name
2026-07-19 08:25:51
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maxineshaw313 :
Legally changing your name is seriously such a tedious task.
2026-08-05 19:20:41
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Lady H :
Remind her, the MIL & SIL share the name too!!
2026-07-18 23:47:17
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Alex Diaz :
He could always change his last name too…
2026-07-19 00:55:23
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Emsicle 💝 :
When my ex husband and I got divorced, I was going to change my name back but our daughter (6 at the time) tearfully asked me if that meant I wasn’t going to be her mummy anymore - name not changed!
2026-07-24 14:50:51
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Brandy Nagle :
Hell no!! Now she will have her kids last name! People will think that’s her kids!
2026-07-20 20:41:31
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Wren :
Would never expect an ex wife to change her name, especially if she has kids with my husband. She gave birth to them, why the fuck should she have a different name to them?
2026-07-25 16:20:12
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Farrah :
you have kids and your name should be the same until you are ready
2026-07-19 16:35:38
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Deb :
No is a complete sentence.
2026-07-19 00:26:23
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Red queen :
When people tell me that I am intimidating, I always ask “am I intimidating or are YOU intimidated”. That is a THEM problem
2026-07-19 15:05:01
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gaymogaymo :
I'd have been soo evil and petty I'd have changed the spelling of the name so it's not the same name but it's pronounce the same
2026-08-05 14:36:09
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JoselynRaeZ :
no... you can have her last name if it bothers you. That's my children's last name and was mine for 12 + yrs
2026-07-20 15:56:26
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Dee Bee :
The fiancé can keep her maiden name to solve the problem of having the same last name 😂
2026-07-21 16:26:34
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Itgirldaily :
38 and she is 24😳 , tf i am around her age , my mind will never cross about being with somone on that diffrent stage of life , she is young adult !
2026-08-03 21:16:19
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user4279931815407 :
why would you want his name?
2026-08-04 13:03:05
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Ivy Sa188 :
The girlfriend can keep her lastname, then she would‘t have the same name as his exwife😂 Problem solved 😅
2026-08-24 15:44:14
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Hanna Bell Lecter :
I've been divorced almost 20 years and still have his last name. I don't give a feck what he and his third wife thinks.
2026-09-08 16:16:30
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chaosXkitten :
That’s been her last name for nearly 2 decades. That’s her last name and there’s no reason for OP to change it. If she wanted to give into ex husband, he should have to foot the bill plus extra for the hassle and time required to do so
2026-08-05 19:28:26
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Flor :
Another reason to NOT change your name when you marry
2026-07-21 14:44:16
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