Amyjackson9213💙
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•P•A•Y•T•O•N• :
Girl I am TELLING YOU. TAKE THOSE SCREENS AWAY!!!!! Not a judgement by any means, just an offer of help. After a week or two you will see a HUGE difference.
2026-07-19 05:49:32
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StayBlessed0803 :
Actions have consequences. You can’t negotiate. And, you have to be consistent. I have 5 children, my husband was navy and gone a lot…. I had them on a schedule, and they knew the rules…. I never wavered on the rules. You’re a fantastic mother, but you’re giving them too much. Make the rules and stand by them. You got this!!
2026-07-19 00:10:52
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erinnp77 :
Look up screen addiction in children. It causes the craziest stuff. They don’t learn to calm, regulate and breathe. I’ve learned with my 13 year old that it’s a huge part of our issues. We have started to severely limit her cell phone time and video game time. It was hell and still is sometimes but it’s made a difference.
2026-07-19 00:52:22
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brittneekleinknig :
As a special education teacher I would look into ADHD and ODD that is what it sounds like.
2026-07-19 01:47:02
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Ashley Rogers :
do they have access to the Internet/YouTube/ tablet?
2026-07-19 02:46:38
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Amberdot420 :
I haven’t related to anything so much, my 5 year old almost 6 year old son is the exact same way. I understand so much
2026-07-18 23:41:40
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kassandra :) :
I am dealing with the same. I believe it has a ton to do with the screen and internet
2026-07-19 13:44:47
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amanda :
this is the most relatable thing to myself and my situation with my children im going through. I honestly understand this and I feel your mental stress
2026-07-19 04:32:53
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Anna Marie Monteverd :
I'm sorry to hear this Amy. definitely get her into a child psychiatrist or psychologist to figure this behavior out♥️much love your way
2026-07-19 13:46:00
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11mama15bear22 :
This sounds like one of my kids. They have ODD/ADHD. It's hard, super hard but ignore, ignore, ignore. She wants the reaction. ❤️Message me, anytime you need to. ❤️
2026-07-19 01:00:57
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a l y s s a ♡ :
we took away screen time and we have seen a major difference. my niece would non stop have meltdowns with any no or not getting her way. taking away screentime has helped alot
2026-07-19 11:50:27
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rediscovering.jess :
My daughter is like this at 11 send help 😩
2026-07-19 13:44:50
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Chezabell :
Separate them completely. Maybe sounds ridiculous thinking but my sister and I were the same way an ND when we got separated it changed. I hope things get better
2026-07-19 01:31:12
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ash_777eats :
Have you had them evaluated for adhd I think you said that you have it I have adhd and it something in girls/women that is present differently
2026-07-19 02:23:51
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Ana :
My guess would be she has ADHD
2026-07-19 04:28:28
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CleaningChick :
Monitor their social media and the content they consume. Try to have them watch “feel good movies” I know it sounds dumb but it could teaches them empathy ect. Also try one on one time with them, like a mother daughter date type thing. Lastly I remember being a kid and fighting with my sister, sometimes personalities just clash. I also remember playing games with both liked and dancing to music helped. Wii sports and just dance was the best times that we got along. Hopefully any of that helps wishing you the best of luck! 🤞🏻
2026-07-19 00:07:00
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Nikki :
Unfortunately they pick these behaviors from school. I’m praying for you momma ❤️🙏
2026-07-19 04:05:35
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Robin :
I think therapy is a great idea Amy. I started when my daughter was 6 and it made a tremendous difference! Praying for you all momma
2026-07-19 00:03:26
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Ziggy.star69 :
Don’t be afraid of adhd meds my daughter was unhappy in her own head and she caught up in school in just a few months and is happy
2026-07-19 00:18:33
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Alexandria. V. Sullivan 📚 :
My kids went through this & now we run. Fighting? 3 laps. Screaming? 3 laps. By the time that third or 4th lap their emotions are more regulated & physically movement is good!! Gives me time to breathe lmao
2026-07-19 04:43:16
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Jamie DeLong :
I don’t know if you’ll ever read this, but I hope you do. I have two kids who used to have huge meltdowns too. Fighting, screaming, tantrums… all of it. Like yours, they’re both diagnosed with ADHD. Looking back, though, I realized the biggest issue wasn’t just their behavior. It was that my husband and I weren’t consistent. We’d be in the store, a meltdown would start, and we’d eventually give in because we were embarrassed or just wanted it to stop. We’d say things like, “If you don’t stop, you’re losing your phone for two weeks,” but then we’d give it back after a few minutes once they calmed down. What they learned wasn’t how to regulate their behavior. They learned ours. They learned that if they held out long enough, we’d eventually give in. When you said, “It’s almost like she wants to get in trouble,” that really stood out to me because, in a way, she might. Even negative attention is still attention. I finally sat down with my husband, and we created a behavior binder. We decided ahead of time which consequences went with which behaviors and wrote them all down. We intentionally chose consequences we knew we could consistently follow through with, like losing phone time for an hour instead of making unrealistic threats we’d never keep. We also gave each child two daily responsibilities with predetermined consequences if they weren’t completed. Before we started, we sat down with the kids and explained exactly what was changing so there were no surprises. I’m not going to lie…it got worse before it got better. For about a month, they pushed back hard. They tested every boundary because they were used to us eventually giving in. But we committed to staying calm, following through every single time, and not changing the consequence because they were upset. Eventually, their behavior changed because ours had changed. They learned they could trust us to mean what we said, and they stopped wasting energy testing the limits. It’s definitely not perfect, but it’s honestly 100% better than it used to be. I know every child is different, but I wanted to share what made such a huge difference for our family in case any part of it is helpful.
2026-07-19 02:25:43
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destiny💋 :
my 6 and 7 yr old is the SAME WAY. this gen of kids is jus different i swear. i FEEL for you.. they’re gonna cause me to hav a stroke or heart attack due to stress lol
2026-07-19 04:14:19
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Ash-mom of both! #girl/boymom :
Have you cut out food dyes from their diets? It may help if you haven’t! Hugs momma!
2026-07-19 01:37:16
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🖤mamaof2🖤 :
My daughter is 10 she stays to herself
2026-07-18 23:39:32
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🩷✨CM✨🩷 :
Is she on a game or tablet a lot? I notice my son is a completely different kid when I take it away. He is always grouchy when he has it even though it’s limited to two hours.
2026-07-19 13:44:49
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