J.Hernández :
Tbh, this is quite a predicament, I am not saying it lightly, I am saying it with broad experience. The thing with it is not enjoying it, but as many people already said, is trying to detach ourselves from it, personally I don’t suffer it as much as others do, but the fact that there’s still that division is what haunts me the most. I mean there’s people out there not even knowing there are people like these, being genuinely so alienated that seek important but not dependent validation in this. I say it and I repeat it, it’s not an affordable solution, not because it doesn’t suits you, cause it does very well, but rather that you are taking not for granted something that is a complete illusion of the truth, for some time I prefer living up to the lie, you know? But then I’ve got so isolated from everyone and everything that I just didn’t recognize myself. People, please do not take this things lightly, and not because of my yapping, but rather that people out there who are not as brave as this wonderful guy over here that share with us his problem, are genuine detaching from marvelous things they think they do not deserve just because people around them tell them they are not worthy of them. I really hate that still my fyp recommends me this, but it’s the truth, I was before attached to these things and I can say that it was like being in a cage not knowing it was one not very much later when I practically forgot myself for a good bunch of months and was pretty much unrecognizable, so I genuinely encourage the people still in this to seek bravery, just like this post demonstrated so, and try to just recognize it at first glance, what is genuinely that thing that you most despise that you don’t have and the reason behind it, because on god I know that for some time I craved for more love that I didn’t have before from myself. It’s that. To just believe the things that you say to yourself(obviously positive), in such a genuine state that later you subconsciously believe it so as the reality. That’s what helped me.
2026-07-22 06:44:41