@unproblematicmak: It feels backhanded… #sa #consent #believesurvivors

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sweetcupcakevanilla
ℛ :
That’s not the implication 😭 it means they are putting their opinion as another survivor.
2026-07-19 04:58:08
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pixiewixiechu
PixieWixieChu :
no literally it's always "as an actual victim of that, you're wrong" as if me coming to a different conclusion than them means that I got assaulted wrong
2026-07-19 06:35:17
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alice_autry
alice autry :
After I told this lady from the church that the youth pastor touched me inappropriately, I was told “as a victim myself, he didn’t rape you. So at least it’s not that bad” and I’ve struggled with that my entire life since. Was I really SA if he didn’t insert anything? Was anything done wrong to me if his member wasn’t in me? It took a long time , and I still have moments , to consider myself a survivor and felt like I had a right to mourn that loss of consent to my body
2026-07-20 12:10:07
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jomaloney444
jo<3 :
they don’t get it but i understand what you’re saying
2026-07-19 06:11:32
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internett_neko
🏩 キティキャット ᵎᵎ ☭ :
No it isn’t
2026-07-19 12:01:16
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domino.fawn
Domino💋💖 :
😭💔 Girlie gets it.
2026-07-20 00:43:25
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y0urfav0rit3gir1
y0urfav0rit3gir1 :
it doesn’t imply that😭😭😭
2026-07-19 05:48:07
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thatgayk1d.com
Just smKid :
I’m having a really hard time understanding this…. The only thing that comes to my mind is “As a victim, (insert what they had to deal with or relating to another persons story)”. I don’t know if that’s seen as malicious or smt, but I’ve tried rereading it many times and I still don’t get it
2026-07-19 07:27:11
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k4chmeifyoucan
kach <3 :
I don’t think that is their intention in saying that… do you expect them to know of details you’ve never told them???? Literally an opportunity to relate to someone in your shoes and you take it as an attack…
2026-07-19 09:44:03
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spiderweb039
🕷️Spider🕸️Web :
I always say as a fellow survivor when I comment on stuff 💓
2026-07-19 04:34:24
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screamingpeeps
screamingpeeps :
honestly i get it. obv depends on context but a lot of people will use “as a victim” to discredit someone elses opinion on a relevant topic- which assumes the other persons opinion isnt existing as a victim but rather as a 3rd party who has no authority on the topic. It implies that victimhood grants authority and its a power play of who has the highest authority or who holds the most victimhood
2026-07-19 21:41:37
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imsmallstick04
Effy 👻🐟 :
I just see it as a way of relating, I get how people might think it’s back handed though but most people mean no harm by saying it, they just want the other person to know that they understand because they’ve been through similar 🩷
2026-07-19 10:35:06
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chloeseater
chloeseater :
Literally sag moon magic and Loki
2026-07-19 13:21:10
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tru1y_selene
tru1y_selene :
I never thought of it that way, I think everyone has different experiences and that’s why they say that because they don’t know about other people’s experiences. Since we are all strangers on the internet
2026-07-19 04:05:14
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aanavidad
Alex Navidad :
Lmaoo and yall still taking this retards fucken advice and listening to her 😭😭😭
2026-07-19 19:51:13
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lilspammy2
lily :
it’s not an attack it’s self labeling u can do that too
2026-07-19 06:47:55
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