Chris Seiter
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Monday 20 July 2026 15:00:00 GMT
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t1b2n3l4 :
The thing with avoidants is: it’s all about THEM. You will have to change your ways to make THEM happy. Don’t do it, just run.
2026-07-20 18:56:01
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F.it_letstryit :
I’m not enabling their stupidity and lack of maturity. It’s time they grow up.
2026-07-20 20:48:53
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Tyler VanEps :
So minimize yourself just to still never be a priority
2026-07-21 12:38:42
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alexperez2420 :
Just leave them 💀 Not worth it. If someone can’t meet you at 100%, or even at 50%, just leave.
2026-07-21 11:10:15
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MichelleandBond :
I did that for 4 years...it is EXHAUSTING. Run. Its like trying to teach a cat to drive a car.
2026-07-22 14:00:48
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MissyMooSparkle :
uh huh... so i need to understand them but heaven forbid they wont or refuse to understand me 🙄
2026-07-20 19:21:24
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anthony :
Do avoidants need constant reassurance?
2026-07-21 14:12:29
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kaite1085 :
What in the over-functioning in relationships kind of nonsense is this. They are emotional abusers and emotionally neglectful. Period. Stop catering to this BS. Behavior needs BOUNDARIEEEES not analysis.
2026-07-22 14:15:46
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Brookie D💋 :
I do this to my husband every time.
2026-07-21 21:43:51
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conservativenation :
im learning mine very well and honestly if you want it to work you have to be perceptive of their personality and you have to be easier to them or you can forget it ever working
2026-07-20 18:39:26
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💤 :
why take on a full time job fir a partner
2026-07-21 10:23:37
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nononononnonononononno :
I did all that slowly built it over 4 yrs good progress then he faded away again 4 months disappeared came back after 4 months then disappeared again after 2 months i think everything with FA is unsustainable no matter how much effort u put in it 😞just block them and move on
2026-07-22 08:43:37
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pirate_in_raleigh :
Doesn’t work. No matter how you phrase it it will be received as a threat.
2026-08-03 19:17:38
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meandmykids :
it's means u mother them. and u suffocate urself to protect their ego
2026-07-25 13:51:02
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Hammyjammy9000 :
It’s never worth having to do all this in the hopes that they’ll choose you. They need to heal before they’ll ever be a good partner
2026-07-21 20:04:52
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@1jnrjf78sijdbbsi8 :
it's very one-sided and nobody should have to tolerate that
2026-07-22 13:47:39
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Ahmad :
Not worth it.
2026-07-21 08:57:17
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I8URCHEESE :
ya and by then its too late.
2026-07-25 07:46:28
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roberttullos2 :
How do you even do that?
2026-07-22 17:41:58
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Wish I just blocked you :
Don’t waste your time people 😏 life is short these people need to grow up and or stay away from relationships.
2026-07-21 11:15:44
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Crystal 😜 :
Its one thing to have fears and slowly work towards it or trying to manipulate someone to bend for them
2026-07-21 04:22:55
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Sam Owen :
Can you give an example
2026-08-02 05:32:19
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SoniaK24 :
avoidants should stay with their kind rather than ruin genuine people like myself
2026-08-20 14:12:08
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cwj_003 :
I feel like I’m going through this 😔 I feel so belittled like, they did smth wrong and I’m bringing it up, just to turn it onto me and it’s my fault, and I have to be THE ONE to understand them and apologise/validate them first… MAKE IT MAKE SENSE I’m going crazy
2026-08-10 16:19:59
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Annie_thesupernanny :
did they need a study for people that to learn that? 😂😂😂
2026-07-20 15:21:09
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