@phoenixpathway: He Lives Comfortably In A Dynamic He Never Has To Support He gets to look like a good partner because you have shrunk your needs to a size he can tolerate. You are running the entire relationship while he coasts along. He has never been tested by this relationship because you handle the inconveniences before he has to feel them. He isn't struggling to show up for you. He is just enjoying a relationship that asks absolutely nothing of him. #relationshipadvice #datingtipsforwomen #feminineenergy #knowyourworth
He’s been in a support structure not a relationship 🤯
2026-08-02 20:49:54
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holyeffword 🔻 :
after 11 years.
2026-08-01 22:22:50
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Blondecurlymom :
Soooo how does this look when you don’t repair after he messes up? Cuz if I don’t repair, we just go five ever without communicating much
2026-08-01 23:14:13
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Amber Marie :
I was so mad a few weeks ago I stepped out of the vehicle while it was moving, we have been married 20 years I should have left him at 18
2026-07-29 19:59:08
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Laura Cushman :
It never just costs him, it costs the whole family, and in many situations the consequences of his inaction are too risky, painful, and costly to wait until he has the necessary realization. He's been told, it's been explained. His partner has begged, cried, shouted her needs every way she can imagine and he just choses not to do what he needs to do. It's more weaponized incompetence, unwillingness, obliviousness that leaves his "partner" always between a rock and a hard place. The only answer for that BS is to walk away.
2026-07-19 19:13:43
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Samantha 💗 :
If youre not a therapist, you need to be. But im glad you help women really realize and think about stuff
2026-07-19 16:43:12
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⚡ 𝕄𝔼𝔾ℕ𝔼𝕋𝕀ℂ ⚡ :
if you have a partner they are sooo damn lucky to have such an intelligent human such as yourself. I'm a little jelly 🥰🥰🥰
2026-07-19 18:05:04
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ShellBellShow :
Taking care of him while he’s sick, while any time I’m sick, I’m driving myself to the ER. I’m a nurse so at first I normalized it, then I got the hint.
2026-07-19 13:51:33
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Alison :
Really the first time I ever drew a line in the sand was 3 weeks ago when I made us an appointment for family counseling. He responded by scheduling divorce mediation.
2026-07-19 16:30:42
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purrrfectlyjamie :
Our dog was old and needed to be put down. She was too big and heavy for me to take her myself. He literally just left for work and left me to deal with it. She was struggling to breathe and he literally just walked out the door and left me with her. I had to call my mom and sister to come help me get her in the car to take her to the vet to be put down. Not only will I never forget that day because it’s the day our dog passed, but it’s also the day he showed me his true colors. I understand it’s hard emotionally to deal with your 14 year old dog dying, but to leave YOUR WIFE to deal with it BY HERSELF?!?!? What kind of man does that!
2026-07-22 16:13:47
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sashasonder :
I let him get away with not being at the hospital with me when we were losing our baby. It’s 4 years later and I’m only now realizing I’m not ok going forward like that.
2026-07-20 13:32:20
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Silena Kester :
So what is some practical advice. I can’t just leave it because it has to be done. I’m not talking about petty things. Then when I bring up something I asked if he could take care of, he says he’s going to. But it’s been 2 weeks and it still hasn’t been done. Now it has to be done! One guess who’s going to have to do it now
2026-07-19 13:49:29
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A :
The issue is-all that impacts me terribly. I leave dishes or trash, and it’s smelly and gross. I don’t call the plumber or fix the AC, and we don’t have air or water. I’m supposed to continue to be uncomfortable because he won’t help?
2026-07-19 13:40:21
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Alex Rose :
stopped doing his laundry. 2 weeks it took for him to notice. he didn't have clothes to wear yesterday, asked me about it. I told him "you have hands". laundry still not done, he's wearing stuff he can't fit in anymore 😂
2026-07-21 11:23:38
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Monique :
So I did this to myself 😭
2026-07-19 18:12:07
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Jess-A-Sunny-Day :
Ooooh Landon! On target yet again 🎯. When I gave him something, and he didn’t handle it. It repeatedly broke my trust and proved his lack of consistency is what I can count on. He also has come to think my social life is null because I’ve had to focus on the family and household while building my career. 13 years of giving the ‘pass’, 5 years of no pass and asking for more accountability, 6 months of silent divorce. Thank you sir! You always give the best insight and guidance. Wishing you all the success that you desire!!
2026-07-19 23:40:10
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Rebecca :
Welp. His loss, because we done now! I do see where I should have put my foot down, but sometimes it’s soooo exhausting.
2026-07-19 16:51:14
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Library_Nikki :
This man caught every cold and flu known to exist in our radius and then guess what? He got me sick. He had no cares for basic considerations like washing his hands or covering his face when he sneezed or just staying away from me when he was sick
2026-07-19 14:42:46
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🎃 Summer 👻 :
This is what just ended my 6 year relationship and I’m so grateful I didn’t waste another day in it. ❤️
2026-07-19 17:17:28
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Ashleemagaen :
These videos brought me such clarity. We have had our discussion and have decided we aren't right for each other anymore. Bittersweet, but much needed.
2026-07-20 13:30:01
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xoJamieloly :
It’s so crazy how spot on this is because I do shrink my needs or challenges that I go through to not be a bother but I stepped out of that last night and I was very surprised how willing he was to help it really is our fault sometimes
2026-07-19 17:48:47
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Sarah :
Whether or not once you start shifting the responsibility onto him and his reaction tells you all you need to know about whether or not leave
2026-07-20 03:44:20
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Adriaa💞 :
ok im up
2026-07-19 15:30:08
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Redefining Freedom :
Yup. I decided to let him live in the overflow of his choices instead of the overflow of my (unearned) generosity and care. My nervous system appreciated it.
2026-07-19 17:48:53
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