For anyone wondering why: it tarnishes ur self respect and makes them think ur vulnerable since ur family is not there to back u for certain decisions. Also majority of the time the mothers will meet u to get it over with, but a proper family will always ask for ur mothers number because they truly want to investigate the family since they consider u an option for their sons future.
2026-07-23 07:47:59
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H :
Keep the wedding talks formal with your family present
2026-07-19 16:17:08
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ሊ🐺 :
This should literally be a basic knowledge!!
2026-07-19 22:58:39
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Anita Augustus Wayne :
So basically follow Somali tradition of a collective visiting ceremony
2026-07-19 16:25:05
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She_Herself :
Absolutely agree with you sis
2026-07-19 13:47:46
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yowmanm :
Key line if ur not a good woman for her son
2026-07-22 13:59:44
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ladanlala :
That’s fudeeeeeed behaviour dot com 😭😭😭
2026-07-20 02:08:59
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user6062120328261 :
The reer waqooyi in me could nevaaaaa
2026-07-19 17:36:39
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missdemure_gaye :
This came at the right time cause I was debating whether I should meet the mum without my parents since I’m already in their city. Lol. Thank god I saw this in time. 🤍
2026-07-19 15:14:28
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s_ljh125 :
💀💀💀 Done this and he broke up with me few weeks later NEVER do it
2026-07-19 14:06:38
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Aabo :
It is the opposite. Never marry unless you check with your mother-in-law.
2026-07-20 02:41:13
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highachievinggirlfailure :
What do yall think about him coming to meet your mom/fam first without his parents?
2026-07-20 06:45:52
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Lillie :
Omg haha I did that!!! She told me point blank… my son hasn’t just been silver spoon fed, but gold spoon fed (they were very wealthy) 😂😂😂 that sealed the deal for me- it was over asap!
2026-07-19 16:08:14
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Meen Ahmed :
We like cultured babes.
I'm told they should just hear of you and the first meeting should be at the wedding. Mystery is a good thing
2026-07-20 10:45:31
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Nicki💚 :
I know some guys that will bring the girl to meet the family like mum sisters aunties 😳 bad idea or
2026-07-19 14:21:24
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Hali Blu 🌷 :
Now what will possess someone to do this
2026-07-20 15:09:40
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Yaasmin Qurux :
never do that mistake in your life
2026-07-20 18:51:22
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Naomi :
that's very true, even for someone who grew up here, I can't imagine meeting my future daughter in law without her family.
2026-07-19 18:20:07
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InkQuill22📸🌸 :
I thought this was how it's meant to be 😅, imagine meeting in laws by yourself
2026-07-20 11:49:14
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qureisha8 :
I remember my brothers never married the women they came with alone, one was also disowned for following her
2026-07-19 17:35:47
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suki :
but why???? i need answers
2026-07-20 02:24:11
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Wind :
Is the mic a prop or smn
2026-07-19 17:16:03
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Asma :
people do this?
2026-07-19 23:38:19
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i_lovecarlos_ :
why is this a wrong thing to do why can’t i just get to know his mother before mother in laws play a big role in our lives as a married couple
2026-07-20 04:34:35
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