@ilovemycatstoes: Me officially coming out also bc I don’t think I said this yet 🕺🏼 #wlw #lgbt #lesbian

estralaura :

he may have been mr. right but i had it all wrong

Joley :

yeah the very first guy i ‘liked’ that liked me back and started dating… he was a perfectly nice guy but as soon as we got together, i got a massive case of the ick. broke up after a month and it still took another two years to fully grasp that im a lesbian, not bi

Kait| Disabled SAHM🍃 :

I got married to my best friend, I've known him for over two decades.. we've been married 8 years and we're both bi with a preference for women. except I'm starting to realize I might actually be gay 🫠

Cela🍉🇨🇴🇵🇸❤️ :

it wasnt until i met my now gf of 6 years when i was explaining her my old bf relationships she was like "you've been a lesbian this entire time babes......" and im like oh cute!

Morri Moon :

Jessi 🏳️‍🌈 :

I once dated a decent guy, not perfect, some issues but hey, I'm sure he could've grown out of them, we were pretty young. He used to tell me all the time, "I love you so much, you're the best thing that ever happened to me, you're perfect" and I could NEVER say it back, my body basically recoiled. Anyway, I say the same shit to my girlfriend all the time lmao.

Megan :

I realised I was a lesbian from going on a date with the “right man”. He was honestly so lovely and a good looking guy too. There was nothing to dislike but I just wasn’t attracted to men😩 I’m so grateful for him and the lovely date we went on but im a lesbian. Whereas with my girlfriend now I am so excited and the best relationship I’ve ever had

˖ ⊹ ࣪ ˖ :

I totally get it. My ex is a good man, I married him, but I just don’t like men. We are still friends and since we grew up together so he will always be family to me.

Nichole Wilde :

This is very validating, thank you for sharing this.

𐙚 sophie ‧₊˚ ⋅ :

I feel like I’m going down this path rn. Every time a guy is interested in me I feel repulsed and almost upset we aren’t just friends. They aren’t even “bad” dudes, all of them have positive qualities to them and could be considered attractive. The only time I’ve ever gone out w a dude frl I wanted to saw my head off even tho (minus some moments here and there) the rls was going well. I know for a fact I like girls but guys … idk 🫠

Dabadooo :

I’m also single and in the same realization 😏😏

whimsy_victoria :

Oh dang same 😅

n. :

there was only once that i thought i had strong enough feelings for a guy so i decided to rip the bandaid off and told him at first he was like he's not in right headspace for a new relationship and all i felt in response was relief. this guy checked all my hypothetical boxes but i was so relieved when he didn't reciprocate but a month later he became proactive and started making his moves never in my life did i ever felt dread like that before. i started avoiding him, everyone in both our friend groups were trying to make us be together finally but i felt SICK. i still went with im bisexual for another year or so 😭 comphet and heteronormativity are diseases istg

Little-petal :

…….i delt with it for like a year. 100% regret that cus i then cried more over a girl i was freinds with then i did with him like a week later.

user0121313347883 :

Literally it was like the final straw snapped 😂😂

iz ₊ ⊹⋆｡°✧˚ ༘ ⋆｡✮⋆ :

god this is so true

el🪲🐛🐞 :

off topic but i love your hair, what dye did you use?

innermonologue00 :

Yeah I realize I might be too. I’ve never actually seriously liked or been with any man. Only very brief encounters, in an attempt to fulfill my urges that would leave me feeling disgusted and disconnected . However , since I don’t have my life together I’ve been holding off on dating women , because they really don’t deserve to deal with a bum🥀The lack of experience with women makes me not know for sure. And it’s a horrible feeling , not being able to explore my sexuality in this stage of my youth, because I respect women so much that I want to be thriving when I meet them. 😭

loumichaud :

SAME

Stephッ🏳️‍🌈 :

the accuracy. ive been with my husband for 14yrs. married 12yrs this year. and hes known from day 1 that l like women. i have in the past couple years realized i was never bi. my husband is my best friend and i am bonded to him and i dont want him not in my life. but at the same time i know the things he wants i dont feel like i can ever do. im a black cat and hes very much a golden retriever. and i do feel like i love him unconditionally. but i will always feel like there are things i cannot give to him when he asks for it all the time. but every time i brought up divorce hes like nope were in this together. also vulnerability and feelings are also difficult for me. (ONLY CHILD) and my husband knows it. he is more emotional than i am. and So is our son.

Goofyyyg2.0 :

I honestly Uno reverse it to them and I literally say “with the way that you’re advocating for men so much. Sounds like you want a man” and they get mad.

Montauk Project Daughter :

me when men got romantic with me in public

fuzzycapybara :

lol I married a 💩 man so that’s probably why it took me so long to realize. I just thought every woman hated men.

Karo ✨ :

The only “boyfriend” I’ve ever had was actually an online / long distance relationship, we only met ONCE while we were “dating” - and ofc nothing ever happened between us, the most we did was hug lmao. And for some reason while in that “relationship” he was so often annoying me but I couldn’t even tell why exactly; I was in high school at the time, between age 16-18 so maybe I was simply immature and still figuring things out. After he broke up with me I was sad, mostly mad but for some reason happy because I was “free”?? After a while, when things got more calm we became friends, and at first be both told each other that we were “bi”… Well, NOPE. He is now openly gay and has a boyfriend (I think) and I also realized that I don’t like men that way. At first I thought I was bi because suddenly I started to reallyyyy like my best friend, after I went to visit her on the other side of a country and we spent a few days together. I still remember the exact moment when I realized that I might actually like her, and it was in 2017… After that situation I talked to my male friend about it; one time we accidentally mentioned something about “me liking my best friend” on twitter and she found it somehow… I got a message from her saying that she really liked me as a friend but nothing more etc, I panicked and lied that “it was about someone else” - but omg I still remember how much I cried then… Now I think it was actually the first time I ever liked someone for real because I never cried that much because of any boy