I don't care about the "Why." It doesn't excuse DA brutally toxic behavior that absolutely wrecks someone's physical and mental health.
2026-07-19 23:42:39
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KimmyVonSqueeze :
I don’t struggle to believe someone could love me I struggle to understand how someone could love me to the point of damaging themselves. I was always so independent that If something hurts me I just leave I walk away. If I’m hurting you why would you stay and put yourself in this situation because you love me?? Love yourself.
2026-07-19 17:03:39
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Joyce Marie :
They know what they did. 77 years old, they had plenty of time to know.
2026-07-21 01:32:52
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Riseing fire :
They just wanted every other women.
2026-07-20 04:39:21
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tiktokker❌️ :
I'm a self aware dismissive avoidant and we self sabotage so we don't lose our independence and control in our life. We don't trust because we know it won't last. We will not take that step to be vulnerable and real. I'm avoidant due to years of narcissistic abuse. I don't date and have no intrest with having obligations to a woman now. The more I feel I am responsible for someone else's feelings... I run and run fast. That's for you to figure out. Just saying how it makes avoidants feel. We rely on our own feelings and cannot take on others obligations and feelings. We do care deep down, but we have no way of sharing that feeling with others. We just leave and give no closure. Unfortunately, most avoidants cannot understand their ways and continue to hurt vulnerable people. ✌
2026-07-19 19:54:46
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Tsanche :
Nah, she didn't care
2026-07-19 18:51:04
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Angel 🌜 :
sent him nothing but emotional messages for six months after he ghosted me, and every single time he blocked me almost immediately. Four days ago, I sent him a calm message apologizing for my harsh words. I told him I wasn't angry anymore and wished him all the best. For the first time, he didn't block me. Do you think this is more likely a sign of indifference, or could it mean something else? What do you think might be going on?*
2026-07-22 22:32:28
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𝐀𝐜𝐞 :
Mine came back 2 weeks after the breakup to apologize but now he acted heartless again. I feel like he’s trying to make me hate him for some reason so we are kind of in no contact
2026-07-25 18:39:35
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StaticSynth :
but you're right...they do struggle to understand how much they matter..
2026-07-19 17:03:12
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Crimson Zer0 :
So how do you get them to recognize how deeply they hurt you?
2026-07-20 10:44:29
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bepski :
They need to heal themselves or others should stay away from them.
2026-07-20 03:47:23
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DaniXavi :
That's why I try not to hate, I just put it in a reason that we all are hurt in different times, patterns, manner and these come from different people and instances from the past. We all have different ways to cope. Putting hate may just bounce back on me. I just pray for myself and maybe when I am able (mentally and emotionally - as I also do not want to lie to myself, so I don't force myself) I pray for them too. I don't need to talk to people I don't like, I just want to broaden my understanding little by little that we are not all the same. We may be doing things we like and we don't like unintentionally and intentionally. Giving understanding doesn't always mean we need to connect or reconnect with people who hurt us, it is more than we give grace to ourselves that we need to heal and we need to accept people opposite to whatever we are (anxious or avoidant) exist and sadly at some point in our lives we need to co-exist maybe as family, co-workers, neighbors, etc.
2026-07-19 21:43:09
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Just William :
He doesn’t know or care I have him m😅y all
2026-07-20 12:03:08
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oe :
do you find all avoidants are the same?
2026-07-19 19:41:30
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Riseing fire :
I don't know if thats ture because it seems they think there better than you even when their hurting and disturbing the s*** out of the person that cares and loved them!
2026-07-22 21:13:21
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Riseing fire :
I did loved them anyways some where i still do. it a mixed thing for me it really sucks.
2026-07-21 05:24:41
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Riseing fire :
I was alone most of my life.and I wasn't like them.
2026-07-21 05:26:55
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StaticSynth :
recognize??.. pfft.. they don't even care.
2026-07-19 17:01:50
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Paul Spencer :
So well said!!
2026-07-20 09:22:56
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zogfather1 :
Trying to let the sink in
2026-07-19 22:52:49
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Riseing fire :
I did love him either way. but it just got me really hurt more. But I didn't after awhile wasn't showing him how much I loved him. i wasn't reacting properly to anything I was not even reacting to the nice things he was doing by then. I partly don't why I was behaving that way.i left not knowing why he was doing those things for me. it all still makes me sad . Because I would have wanted have behave differently 😌
2026-07-27 18:02:58
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Romanl :
Stop making excuses for bad people.
2026-07-19 18:18:22
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sarah :
It’s fucking abusive
2026-07-19 18:27:12
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Taenyc🎨 :
I was my hands and my 🍑 with the situation
2026-07-20 01:28:30
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User Angela79 :
It’s time to stop using someone’s childhood a free pass!! Grow up and be better than what you had as a child. Be a better partner be a better father. Instead they live in chaos and disfunction and call in love. Meanwhile they toss the one who truly loved them, was real, was safe, was genuine they burn it down. All boils down to them being immature. If I chose you. I chose all of you!!
2026-07-20 13:17:07
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