@fit.mom.carlyn: Dealing with covert bullying as an adult. Recognizing it for what it is and why it’s happening. #christiantiktok #bully #women #mom #life
dance moms! they dont invite me to anything and its been 3 years! often talk down to me, drill me with questions to see if i fit their aesthetic.. what does your husband do for work. are you married. are they the father of your child etc because i am a few years younger. I started my own group!!! mainly look for girls that talk to you in a performative way and need to know everything.
2026-07-20 03:58:30
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Control83 :
How to deal with family members who maybe partake in covert bullying that you can’t necessarily escape from as easily as friends, without looking like the problem?
2026-07-19 19:59:49
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Taylor L :
Can you do a video on MIL and SILs who do this? It's exhausting
2026-07-20 11:23:06
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Abcd :
Thank you for speaking on this. I see this so often
2026-07-19 17:42:33
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Nellie Dominguez :
well said as always ✨
2026-07-19 22:00:57
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Kristene :
A lot of people are forever still in high school. It’s a big fishbowl out there.
2026-07-20 17:38:28
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Jennifer :
Its my mom and I have been trying to show her the love of Christ Jesus. If I am not in prayer every single morning then I feel like giving up-but I haven't
2026-07-19 17:45:11
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Zadie :
sometimes in friends group throughout life, people might not leave you out of things to bully you, but because they just don’t gel with you in a natural friendship way, and may not have as many things in common
2026-07-19 23:34:11
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atlmom01 :
How do you handle this when you see the person ? Do you say hello? Or do you try not to speak to them ?
2026-07-20 12:05:22
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Rach :
I used to confront but I noticed my energy is not worth wasting on them
2026-07-21 02:52:56
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Funinthesun :
Thank you for sharing.
2026-07-19 21:28:54
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star.dustt01 :
I’m an adult now and I still have wounds from being bullied and excluded. Sadly it’s been this way for me everywhere, I wonder if I’m just on the spectrum or something. I’ve resorted just to being a recluse since I’ve concluded no one wants me around.
2026-07-20 14:49:34
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Lemonade :
Ha hs yes - this is exactly the situation with our school PTA which never runs properlu due to this. Ridiculously toxic and silly. Nothing direct always passive. I just left lsst week and the relief was ridiculous. agree re working around it - - I now still run the school leho and craft clubs I set up but as im no longer s formal member I avoid all the meetings. The behaviours were so odd thst it took me 3 years tp fully rrcognise it for what it was - bizarre 🥰
2026-07-20 13:30:10
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cranberger :
This is all too true
2026-07-20 04:23:26
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Ilja Kostov :
American friendships are mostly performative. You have to be ‘nice’ to people. Most Americans don’t have friends. Just acquaintances. Friendliness should not be mistaken for friendship. Friendships take years to develop. Hosting parties and being a well put up mom is just adding to the brutal culture of fakeness when the reality is very often huge houses and therapy sessions (for parents and kids).
2026-07-20 11:30:24
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