And this is just your perspective of it not fact.. just your theory
2026-07-21 08:56:56
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velvet.ash || evolve or die :
This for those couples with purpose in the world. They gotta spread out & cover more ground 🥰
2026-07-21 08:13:25
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Tierra :
um...maybe when you are teenagers, but the whole point of marriage is to build a life TOGETHER
2026-07-20 00:12:38
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michael childress :
relationships about about finding a true partner, a ride or die, my fiance is the only person that doesn't drain y social battery. ill never understand why you get into a relationship to want space away from them that's no sense
2026-07-21 13:45:51
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Stephanie Nicole :
I needed this 10 years ago
2026-07-21 03:12:31
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lele☺️💛🤨 :
It is about merging into one life and building together. But you can’t lose yourself. But if you want to have your own life don’t be in a relationship. Your post lost the plot also. There is a balance that requires respect on both sides
2026-07-20 00:41:26
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NoName🍃 :
incorrect, your lives merge together but you are still your own people, THATS a healthy relationship
2026-07-20 12:53:28
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tayday1105 :
I have been trying to tell this to my partner. he has a hard time grasping this.
2026-07-20 12:21:09
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Tracy B Jacobs :
Very true!!
2026-07-20 21:56:51
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MantisModz :
the bible says two flesh become one homie. you can have your individual hobbies but at the end of the day marriage is not two individuals playing hang out
2026-07-20 09:58:16
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JD :
“for this reason a man will leave father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh” Matthew 19:5
2026-07-20 05:55:09
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KennedyTblair :
Facts 🙌🏾 the only time people merge into one life and loose them self is trust issues! If you don’t trust them leave 🙌🏾 don’t be punishing both of y’all 😂
2026-07-19 23:20:39
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fluffyfingaz :
Nah. Me and my wife have been attached at the hip since the day we met. Our lives are pretty much the same and I wouldn't have it any other way.
2026-07-20 14:40:14
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Aunt Dee Dee :
Here’s an example for you all. Partner hates the color red. You love the color red. Over time you stop buying red decor, red clothes, red anything because your partner hates it. That is what he’s talking about.
2026-07-20 12:28:32
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Angel🌻 :
Yes yes they are. When you’re in a serious relationship your lives mesh together. That’s what’s supposed to happen.
2026-07-20 12:35:34
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Julieeeyo :
When you get married and have kids you merge … I’m not sure what the issue is with that.. it’s completely normal. Yes you still have your friends but they’re also friends with your significant other. Is there still boys nights and girls nights. Sure… but you also have a family together and you become a unit in that aspect…
2026-07-20 13:30:55
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XO❤️ :
You’re going to find your perfect little man soon my guy, stay patient!!!
2026-07-20 17:24:42
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Space 🤠 :
The ones bringing the Bible into this are not it. Not everyone is in a traditional relationship or religious. Being in a relationship is complicated. You don’t have to lose yourself to be happy in it. It’s the individuality that makes it last longer.
2026-07-20 12:17:52
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Jenna🖤 :
This is facts. Somewhere along the line the plot turned in codependency for today’s modern day relationship. People want a one stop shop for their partner, sadly. Was never meant to be that way. It is important to maintain your autonomy and have your own identity plus polarity aids in attraction which obviously helps keep the spark alive and nurture your connection
2026-07-20 11:04:53
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Gretchen :
I agree and disagree at the same time. The end goal is to become one. But with that, there is nothing wrong with having your own hobbies, thoughts, and opinions.
2026-07-20 21:31:50
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missy1652 :
Two become one!
2026-07-20 11:57:55
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Shorty0614 Cash app shawty81 :
Exactly, I been told that because I don’t want to completely merge myself in a relationship I’m not ready for one 🙄
2026-07-20 15:17:33
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linda :
Yeah, people don’t realize that they expect to get 100% of what they need from their partner and that’s never gonna happen
2026-07-20 16:23:29
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John Joy :
idk man I'm autistic with bpd. my girl is my person, I could spend every waking moment with her and have 0 issues
2026-07-20 16:58:05
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