@nataliecarterthrives: Looking back with clear eyes… I can see something that I couldn’t see for years. I convinced myself my weight made me less lovable. But it NEVER changed the people who truly loved me. Jason has ALWAYS made me feel beautiful, whatever my size. My boys have never needed a smaller mum just a present involved mum. My friends have always seen something in me that I struggled to see in myself. Even Kai has always been over the moon just because I walked through the door. Of course, there are people who judge. I know that. But looking back, I gave those voices far more power than the people who loved me every single day. If you’re constantly questioning your worth because of your body… Pause for a moment. Whose opinion have you been believing???? Because the people who truly love you probably aren’t asking you to become smaller. ❤️