I mean, nuance def exists, I literally bleed nearly everyday since childhood bc of what happened to me and contie to struggle to find somewhere I fit sexual wise. But I also enjoy things like CNC and reading fiction of things I had happen and talking to people who enjoy that fiction regardless of their usage of it. It's best to protect your own space and handle your trauma in the way that's best for you and recommended to recover (if that's your end goal) I also don't think we should try to erase the fact that trauma and kinks can be heavily from the same place in the mind. Honestly some really interesting studies on it ngl
2026-07-22 03:50:17
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hey_its_v_again :
Direct quotes from the book by the way
2026-07-20 18:28:44
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heav3n :
🍇 DOES NOT EQUAL ROMANCE !!!
2026-07-22 03:41:38
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🧁ƒɑƴɛ!!🐾🦴 :
my cervix is permanently damaged from it, It would be nearly impossible for me to have a baby and the only thing ive ever wanted was to have a baby.
2026-07-21 00:22:17
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user15322745 :
SIGN THE PETITION PLEASE EVERYONE SPREAD THE WORD
2026-07-20 18:31:39
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𝓜𝓪𝓻𝓲.🎱 :
"why don't cancel horror movies then!?"
because horror movies don't romanticize violence and stalking
2026-07-20 21:52:35
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sagegreen :
If he looked like the guy from perfect blue this book would have no defenders
2026-07-20 22:18:58
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Reboot :
I dont get the argument where people say 'it helps with my trauma'. How does reading about rape help you? I genuinely dont get it
2026-07-21 03:05:30
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BREEZY :
"it's just fiction." Fiction can convince the mind that it's right.
2026-07-21 06:26:27
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bunni love :
As a sa survivor this book disgust me so much 🥺🥺
2026-07-20 13:43:40
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marysia 🐈⬛ :
If it was written by a man they would be SO mad. If zade was considered ugly they WOULDNT like it.
2026-07-20 17:18:32
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katya ᥫ᭡s garmadon! :
The gun scene is what is happening to the women of congo and tigray. It isn’t just fictional. It’s REAL LIFE HARM. This will be a disaster
2026-07-21 16:44:46
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ꩇׁׅ݊𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙚🪽 :
Haunting Adeline should’ve never got an movie
2026-07-20 08:46:51
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Akirah :
Someone genuinely said to me "I wish Zade was real!" he is real. he is VERY MUCH REAL.
2026-07-20 18:57:07
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chunguslife :
my mom and sister read this book and i’m a victim. they know but it hasn’t been brought up in years and never will or never be believed unfortunately.
2026-07-22 03:08:42
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Nize__♡ :
VOCÊS NÃO SABEM HÁ QUANTO TEMPO EU ESPERO PELO CANCELAMENTO DESSES LIVROS!!!
2026-07-21 00:31:38
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hailey 📚 𝜗ৎ :
https://c.org/xRc45Fbgxm sign it please!!
2026-07-22 02:16:45
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Livs 💿🍸🪽 :
And equally it’s also helped many sa survivors. Most of the fandom is sa survivors themselves. This has been taken too far to the point ive seen people receive rape and death threats just for saying they are exited for the movie. There are so so so many trigger warnings you have ample time to realise ‘you know what, maybe this is not for me’ and put the book DOWN. You do not get to claim you support all victims then shit on those who cope differently to your expectations of how they should. There are so many articles on how as victims develop cnc kinks (about 3:4 btw do) and how controlled environments like a book that contains these topics is really beneficial for some to process their trauma and find closure. Zade is not supposed to be a good person. He was never supposed to be that. We only like him because he shows an alternate ending and the flipped side to something that is so horrendous and traumatic. Dark romance wa made to turn something used against women for us instead. So please stop blaming us for the actions of men and put your energy into taking down actually harmful things like the manospher which is actively producing rapists.
2026-07-20 18:31:32
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🪽 𝑪𝒆𝒍𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒆 ˚.⋆ֹ 🎷🐛 :
my trauma is nothing to fantasize about and it deeply shaped me ☹️i hate the "just fiction" people sm
2026-07-21 00:33:17
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st4rnxvnie :
"We get the gun scene" you can't be serious
2026-07-21 17:00:16
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﹒ 𖧧🎀 𓏼 ᥒᥲ᥆mі ⌣ 🧁 . :
I was assulted when I was 8 and my legs are in permanent pain, I’ll never walk normally every again
2026-07-21 06:16:08
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️ :
How can you genuinely read this and not feel your inner feminine rage come up
2026-07-20 19:54:18
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۫ viꪀꪀceꪀt ๑ :
my insides are still rearranged from being raped at 3
2026-07-21 06:23:52
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