I would choose the old one, not because I can’t find someone new, but because I know how deeply I loved that person. If starting over meant erasing the pride, the misunderstandings, the lies, the pain, and all the reasons we fell apart, I’d choose to fall in love with the same person all over again. But only if they choose me with the same sincerity. Because starting over isn’t about pretending nothing happened—it’s about learning from everything that did. If that chance no longer exists, then I’ll let life introduce me to someone who will never make me question my worth.
2026-07-20 10:47:46
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sielow :
I would choose the old one but with the new and better version of themselves.
2026-07-20 15:45:31
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coleen :
Maybe I would choose to start over with someone new because why would I even choose the old one when he already caused me pain, chaos, and heartache? He made me feel like I was a burden in the relationship. He even turned the tables on me, making me believe that I was the reason he did those things and making me feel like I wasn't enough. If he could become a better person, why now? Why not before, when he still had the chance to change, make things right, and treat me the way I deserved? I'd rather choose someone new because choosing is about balance. Why go back to someone who has already hurt me when I can give someone else a chance, someone who hasn't caused me that pain?
2026-07-20 12:02:58
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★EИGΞИΞ¹⁰⁰⁹★ :
I would still choose the old one, in every day, for years because starting over with someone new feels like betraying myself and my heart.
2026-07-25 00:16:39
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Efraii :
Maybe my real choice isn't about choosing between the old or the new, but about finally choosing myself and realizing that I don't need anyone else to complete my story. Why do I always feel forced to jump straight back into the chaos of my past or rush into the arms of someone strange, when my own peace is what actually needs protecting? I exhaust myself trying to fix broken history or gambling on an uncertain future, completely forgetting that being alone doesn't mean being lonely. Why do I forget that it actually means finally having the space to heal on my own terms? How can I return to the past or invite someone new into my life if I do not truly know who I am yet? I must understand my own heart before I can share it with anyone else.
2026-07-21 12:21:15
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2 different perspective and both has a point.
2026-07-21 09:29:27
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dj macs :
I don't read my books backward.
2026-07-25 17:54:47
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x :
I would choose starting over with someone new. Because, no matter how the old one fix the broken pieces, it’s still wouldn’t work.
2026-07-25 01:27:28
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angel :
sino ba kasing instructor na yan
2026-07-20 14:35:20
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Isay De la Cruz :
you all want to start over with the old one but the question is do they want to start over with you as well?
2026-07-21 16:39:12
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Leii :
whats the point of starting over with an old one and a new one? Why dont we pick ourselves for once? Kahit mahal parin natin, its always a choice, two types of coins yung bago or yung luma? one na sinamahan tayo for ages and isang gagawa ng panibagong alala, would we go back to the past knowing we can try to fix our mistakes and do the same for the future not knowing that it can turn out different by simply alternating the past, or do we go to the future to see the things we wanted to achieve to return back to the current time just to know what happens in the future. Why cant we let go for once? why cant we stay no changing the past no seeing the future. What if we just do our own thing? sakin pang nangagaling to na gustong bumalik sa nakaraan para ayusin lahat nag pag kakamali ko sayo phia ko, pero what do i do ba? why would you trust a person that cant even trust himself? why still love me? i have so much more to ask yet i cant :( why dont you let go na po? I know you want na ayusin ko lahat un pero would you really say na gusto ko if di parin bumabalik sayo? trust me i do pero i cant, for reason na di na kitang gustong masaktan. from me to 2026 the 2022 you. i love you, and moving on was the least that i can do to let you go:)
2026-07-25 01:44:35
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Ace :
I would choose myself first.
2026-07-20 22:47:11
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i am gruth :
I’d rather not start anything to begin with
2026-07-25 02:21:09
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ᴠɪᴇʀ :
How can we start over again if we never even started, how can I start over with someone new if I know myself I never wanna start something, so to me it's not a question of "starting over again" or "starting anew" but "Do I even want to start something?" cause deep inside I'm not stuck in between starting over or starting anew I'm stuck at deciding whether if I even wanna start.
2026-07-22 10:09:58
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evi :
start over with someone new, because the past became a past for a reason.
2026-07-20 22:26:30
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æra :
i would have to be with the jollibee
2026-07-21 20:47:08
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why would I read the same book when I already knew the ending
2026-07-20 18:58:29
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😡 :
Can you really love someone new?, if you still love the old one? Can you really start over with the new one without thinking of how they hurt you?
2026-07-20 12:04:14
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itsdaniella :
For me, there’s no universal answer because every situation is different.
Choosing the old one can be the right decision if the relationship ended because of circumstances, poor timing, distance, immaturity, or problems that both people have genuinely worked on. A second chance can be meaningful when there is real growth, accountability, and a willingness to do things differently. Sometimes people meet at the wrong time, separate, mature and become better partners for each other later on. In that case, starting over doesn’t mean repeating the past it means building something new with lessons learned from the old relationship.
2026-07-21 04:36:25
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rsmr.grc :
I'm too drained to choose the old one, but I'm too afraid to choose another new when I know it would be hurt either way 😕
2026-07-21 14:48:30
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judybooo :
i would start over with someone new. my ex was very manipulative and narc. nagmana sa nanay
2026-07-20 12:56:52
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