@orator_walubengo: In this video, we examine the culture of refusing an offer out of timidity or pride, only to feel offended when it isn't repeated. We explore how this mindset has shaped communication, relationships, and confidence in many communities. It's time to replace timidity with honesty and confidence. Interested in leadership, communication, and cultural transformation? Get our books, book a coaching session, or invite us for a conversation. #RepositionAfrica #walubengo
Walubengo
Region: KE
Monday 20 July 2026 09:24:49 GMT
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Reagan :
what about as hosts we stop asking guests kama wameshiba and just bring food na maji ya kunawa. that's it.
2026-07-22 05:29:26
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steph :
you asking if i want food is a red flag😅
2026-07-22 15:13:04
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Fifi❤️ :
I guess it is not good to ask someone if they want food😂
2026-07-20 09:28:29
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kelvin moon :
It's actually good to ask someone if they want food,some people don't take all kinds of foods, you may serve and one says, I don't eat that🤷🏽♂️
2026-07-21 18:43:04
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Hon. Dr Pluto :
MAY I VISIT YOU?
2026-07-21 20:05:31
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𝖊𝖚𝖌𝖎𝖓𝖊🐐🌹 :
just give them food instead of asking
2026-07-22 05:01:03
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muthoni 🇰🇪 :
don't ask,it's not our culture, just offer them
2026-07-21 05:46:30
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Mr_Possible :
I love it when you said.
"you will be hungry and you will die"😂
2026-07-20 10:03:32
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Rioba🌸 :
But sipoa kuuliza mtu kama anataka food. Wee mpee akatae
2026-07-20 18:25:19
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winnie :
thank you🙏🙏
2026-07-21 17:34:21
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dev.austine :
in Africa, even asking me if I want food is in itself an insult. just serve food and let me eat or not eat, that's it.
2026-07-20 22:55:39
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I'm H.1.M :
"... you will be hungry, you will go home and die..." got me rolling 😂😂😂
2026-07-21 14:34:56
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Ibol♡🎀 :
I feel like this is the person I should be following for real 😅
2026-07-21 15:17:16
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👑Masai💌 :
I think you shouldn't ask,just serve
2026-07-21 07:23:18
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Msoo :
just offer food mtu akatae.thats how our mothers taught us
2026-07-21 07:06:24
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vivica :
I think we are at a time where you gotta say what you want irregardless I mean what's the worst that can happen😃😃 many times we offer people things like food and then they taste na wanakuachia apo🤦 not that hawataki but maybe they just came advice solace or something...
2026-07-20 10:12:38
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Dr smile 😊 :
Mimi nayo tukiwa na wewe 😂 usiwai Sema tumeshimba .....
2026-07-20 16:35:20
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Miss_Mueni :
this is me, in my house, ill ask you if you want something before serving. utakaa njaa my friend ukijifanya
2026-07-21 09:39:52
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rombo :
ongea na millennials direct
2026-07-21 06:11:00
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Atudo🐦 :
we are Africans bro relax😂😂😂
2026-07-20 14:56:24
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Polite :
Please beg me to eat
2026-07-20 09:56:53
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Mwende Mwende :
I always say I need food if I need it, I always say I don't need food if I am Full! I am honest and Confident!
2026-07-21 11:17:55
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Catherine selects.🌸 :
Asking and offering is what makes the difference,offer and allow the guest to decide.
2026-07-21 07:58:49
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Tr Truphosa :
but kuna some houses you can't accept it
2026-07-21 13:56:29
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vee_adongo :
exactly 👍🤭🤭🤭🤭
2026-07-20 19:05:40
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