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I knew it was feijoada when she said it was too heavy to eat two days in a row
2026-07-21 17:52:15
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Abby 𖤓 :
Not so fun fact: Feijoada was originally made by Brazilian slaves!
2026-07-22 00:13:14
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andiwatson642 :
she does this twice a year. there are 10 other months that the daughter-in-law could have chosen to do this dish
2026-07-21 16:12:03
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A Whity :
I RARELY side with the MIL because of my own issues with mine. But no, OP is not the AH.
2026-07-21 20:22:35
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mike :
Wendy: my invitation was sent first. MIL: my invitation was sent 10 years ago.
2026-07-22 21:00:53
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Plumpdapoet :
You don’t get to walk in and high jack moms’s tradition. The son should have told her no🤷🏾♀️
2026-07-21 23:13:47
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Alicia :
Wendy did it cause she wanted to try and prove hers was better and embarass the mom. Also, if they wanted the mom to push it back a week, why couldn't the DIL do it just the same?
2026-07-21 21:30:12
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Heather Fry :
If she is a chef, why wouldn’t she just make something else?
2026-07-21 21:26:23
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BFRobinson :
DIL didn't want to get closer to the family, she wanted to show her MIL up. Otherwise she would have picked any other dish to serve on any other day. Such toxic behavior.
2026-07-22 02:59:27
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Bonsai9795 :
nah Wendy did it deliberately to snub mum and her tradition and its an ugly attitude to have on her behalf
2026-07-20 14:04:39
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DodgersChik :
Wendy needs to learn boundaries but also the son needs a reality check 🙄🙄
2026-07-22 03:13:11
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ssrealism :
Daughter is the asshole for trying to hijack the MIL tradition.
2026-07-22 02:22:44
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H a y l e y 🌼 :
Normally I wouldn’t side with a mil because they tend to be clingy to their child in a toxic way. But this? This is straight up disrespect. Especially since it’s a family recipe that’s clearly culture based. The son should’ve stopped that dead in his tracks. It doesn’t indicate whether or not this DIL is of the same culture but still family recipes are off limits
2026-07-22 11:53:28
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Paradise :
The DIL could have asked the MIL if she was willing to let her host one time. Sending out invites expecting MIL to cancel her plans was rude and inconsiderate. Happy MIL continued with her plans.
2026-07-21 20:33:43
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. :
NTA, Not only could she have done another day or another MONTH, she knows that’s MILs traditional dish and could have done literally ANYTHING else. She just wanted to try to upstage her MIL. Just because you think you can do something better doesn’t mean you tear down someone else’s efforts.
2026-07-25 12:32:18
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jamarama :
Wendy you wild for this.
2026-07-25 14:54:36
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Sue Tag :
DIL was being hateful and inconsiderate.
2026-07-25 12:07:27
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Yani Palm :
🤔 she can do the other 2 quarters so it happens 4 times a year
2026-07-25 12:26:37
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Chaz.a.rae :
wendy could have made her own tradition instead of taking the mil’s
2026-07-22 01:27:10
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Oceancliff :
It's obvious that the chef dil was out to "one-up" her mil to prove her cooking was better. She was completely in the wrong and disrespectful. If you want to be a part of the family, don't mess with the family recipes.
2026-07-22 04:43:20
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Beau Aiken :
Twice a year for TEN YEARS?! That’s a tradition as strong as Christmas. If anything, the kid should fold his wife, “hey, my mom does it that day every year. I’m glad you want to make this dish and have everyone over, but let’s do it a few weeks before or later in the year”
2026-07-23 03:19:01
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Ladybug 🐞 :
Wait, why did she choose the same dish to cook!!?!! It's her MIL's TRADITIONAL dish!!!
She could have chosen another dish and made it her TRADITIONAL dish!!
Nothing was right in this story
2026-07-20 15:32:34
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Bird Troutman :
This was definitely a power play to show up the MIL and I’m happy she got put right back in her place
2026-07-22 20:26:06
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missdani2020 :
Wendy is selfish. The end.
2026-07-22 21:20:19
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Juliette :
10 years she’s had this tradition on same day. The DIL was trying to start trouble for sure
2026-07-23 00:17:28
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