@aviewfromabridge: "When I was 5, my father burned our house down in a fit of jealous rage", NI's View From A Bridge. . #vietnam #hanoi #family #parents #children

itsjustakinom :

For some reason it’s so often that the abused person is the breadwinner in the family and the looser abuser is just there reaping the benefits and not contributing in any way.

nonononono :

so the father burns the house down in a fit of jealous rage but the mom is the one being resented 😅

ioche :

I can understand the mother a bit, when learning it was a vietnamese household, women in vietnam get nothing when they divorce their husbands, no child support, no money but still legally having to care for the child, the dad can legally abandon their kids in the divorce here, i dont entirely blame the mom but its a sad and sickening reality when it comes to vietnamese marriages and the laws behind it

C⁉️ :

why is she keep saying that she blames and resent her mother? wouldnt the person she should hate is her father? why always blame the women?

Gia Go Go :

😳😳🥺 So crazy. Childhood trauma is very real.

banana :

So well spoken.

(ง ͠° ͟ل͜ ͡°)ง :

Big trauma dump 😭

Porche Gardener :

the most dangerous time for a woman is when she leaves an abusive relationship. The abuser is most likely to successfully k1ll the victim. That's why it can take so long to leave. Its not fair to any children but it is what it is

princesspeach1991 :

I empathize with the victims because its like you're in such a deep pit that you don't even fully see the full picture, just numb to all of it and at the same time just leave please. Its such an emotional contradiction.

Amelia AU. FREE PALESTINE 🇵🇸 :

I’m sorry you had to go through that

Dusky :

I love their outfit tho despite what the story is 😭I don’t wanna ignore the story just wanna say that

lima_seonghwa :

I’m sorry you endured this darling. Men putting women and children through hell is a sadly, historical, global phenomenon.

Patrice Mendoza :

I hope you forgive your mom, and I also hope you heal from your trauma. ❤️

Kin :

Thank you for being alive. It must have been so hard. I am so soo proud of you 🫂❤️

Doctorb__ | Cat Overlord :

I don’t know if you will ever read this but you never deserved any of that. Sending you so much love ♥️

Concrete Boots :

This reads like poetry. And if I was the author I would call it The The Things Left Unsaid

josephgodfrey992 :

Blimey! That is some fit of rage

saylovie :

we have a saying for the sins of a father but we really need something for mothers who hold on for tooooo long

juju.anh :

rubytuesday :

so sad

checho :

I feel the same way about relationships that’s why I don’t date my dads a covert manipulator

Outfit :

Realizing the good one was the enabler is heart breaking. Glad they are doing better

sumsumer0000 :

Việc câu chuyện được quay ở thành phố này khiến tôi cảm thấy quá nhiều…

Mia :

🫂 I’d like to follow this person if that’s okay 😊