I highly agree with never treating the opposite sex as a walking temptation, you should never view another human being entirely sexually. But that’s the precise reason why I believe in people not having sex unless they love each other first is a good thing, it teaches to only have eyes for those you’re in love with and not random bozos. I’m also a big advocate for abolishing conventional attractiveness. I wouldn’t even consider this puritan but some people have accused me of that before so idk.
2026-07-28 09:49:41
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FouRieurCompulsif :
Hot take: hookup culture has its perks (even tho it had many downsides) because it lets people experience their sexuality the way they want and know what they like (and it isn’t based on shame, but freedom, although somewhat excessive)
2026-07-27 22:02:54
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🇬🇪☦️ John 3:16-21 ☦️🇬🇪 :
factually true
2026-07-27 11:25:02
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Yo mama :
purity and hookup culture are two sides of the same coin
2026-07-22 04:04:43
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misamisa :
Both purity and hook up culture ruined intimacy friendships and close relationships
2026-07-20 18:40:32
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Pixxie🏳️🌈 :
sex is normal and beautiful and so is the human body.
2026-07-21 11:15:47
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Tickles :
Kissing used to be just a greeting.
Men would hold each other while they walked.
Women would hold hands and lay on each other's lap.
Friendships were so intense they were compared to marital covenants.
And people were still loyal to their spouses.
Purity culture has ruined so much. Even for Christians who push it so hard now. Once, the purity demanded of honor-shame cultures was looked at as a twisted inversion on the identity of love and God we were given. I mourn for what was lost of humanity when we let the fear of being "impure" rule.
2026-07-21 21:08:37
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Nm :
I blame religions
2026-07-27 10:09:58
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Austin K :
I think hookup culture is worse and more damaging than purity culture
2026-07-22 23:58:39
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Astrid Hafi :
Purity culture and hookup culture are two extremes, are people just not capable of being the normal in-between anymore?
2026-07-26 00:02:49
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Niki :
I hate purity culture but i also hate hookup culture
2026-07-22 10:38:48
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Anderson Moshi :
Hook up culture when safe and consenting is better than purity culture, but relationships and dating beats them both, marriage is also good when you are both ready and know yourselves and mature. 😁❤️
2026-07-27 10:51:55
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Adel ( ´△`) :
something I'd never understand and want to understand and no one explains it to me well is why in islam we cannot have friends with the opposite gender.
2026-07-27 08:38:11
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suck_yxur_nan :
Does anyone else think that hook up culture is just a symptom of purity culture?
2026-07-22 09:00:55
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✴︎—☽🦇☾—✴︎ :
Hot take: purity is made up, nothing can ever be impure no matter what happens.
2026-07-21 18:47:48
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Gavin.rxi :
I actually saw someone say that any and all forms of masturbation were disgusting and inhuman.
No research, source or reason. Just that it's "weird".
2026-07-21 19:20:57
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M.C.9 :
I thought "purity culture" was just staying virgin.
2026-07-27 20:00:44
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CiciCitrus :
This is why being bi and interacting with straight ppl is so a strange sometimes bc they get so gobsmacked and shocked when I’m just friendly with them even tho I’m attracted to both
2026-07-21 17:21:52
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Dani 🫐 :
fr, you can't be friends with another gender because ppl around you are gonna ask weird questions
2026-07-26 05:15:48
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m𐕣ra :
Also don’t follow advice on this app. I can’t tell you how many times I see ppl blocking genuinely good people just because they don’t respond within a day as if people don’t have lives. We’ve normalized feeling entitled to other people’s attention and time due to phones :/
2026-07-21 20:23:31
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rosie :
And people think the opposite of purity culture is hookup culture which it is not
2026-07-21 13:57:17
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ProletariatGymBro :
right wing christianity especially has ruined men.
2026-07-21 16:52:43
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BillieVarlie901 - ART FIGHT :
Something I've noticed is that homophobia is probably the reason why many men think even the smallest levels of affection from a women is flirting, because they're called gay whenever showing affection to their guy friends, teaching them that you only ever show affection towards someone you're attracted to/want to date and misinterpreting the smallest of basic gestures as flirting. I say this because homophobia is often also linked to purists, being seen as dirty and inherently sexual, and contributing to the collective toxic behaviors around all relationship types
2026-07-21 14:09:21
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oeaic :
a real comment i’ve seen
2026-07-21 12:29:15
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