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Claire :
I don’t like being pregnant. I’m struggling mentally, physically and emotionally.
2026-07-21 02:07:24
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Arentxa :
I’m constantly flopping between happy and wtf have I done.
2026-07-23 20:44:54
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Maphilini :
I have decided to be honest and vocal about how I feel. My entire family knows that I am over this. it's uncomfortable, heavy and full of misery but I also laugh about it.
2026-08-08 22:14:40
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ᗰᗩᖇᔕE :
I'm grieving my nipples lol
2026-07-21 16:00:05
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Cherry 🍒 :
I’m 90% depressed/anxious/grieving etc and 10% excited. I’m tired of acting like that isn’t normal. Many women dont have that real connection until the baby is born.
2026-07-20 19:20:00
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Toni :
i’m grieving my independence!! can’t lift this, can’t move that, can’t even shave my coochie by my self anymore!
2026-07-22 00:27:13
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Rae :
The guilt of not enjoying it is hard…and I’m grieving the relationship with my man, and how I feel like we didn’t have enough time to be just us. Grieving how literally nothing will be the same
2026-07-21 15:45:44
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Morgan :
The thing I’m grieving the most is my ability to nap whenever I want. May she rest in peace.
2026-07-21 01:17:57
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Confused_Artichoke🥦 :
Absolutely. I am 31 weeks pregnant and in my first trimester all I felt was deep crushing grief for who I was and the life I had. This has been a whirlwind and I do feel more grief then excitement and happiness, I dont like unknowns.
2026-07-21 15:13:19
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kaelynnn.__ :
I’m not trying to be negative but pregnancy for me has not been a good time lol. I am so excited for my sweet baby but have not enjoyed pregnancy 💯 I’m only 18 weeks but it’s just not very fun sorry not sorry
2026-08-08 16:58:48
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user7686987573909 :
I was obviously so excited to bring our baby girl home, but once we got home and the hormone crash hit, I remember staring at our entertainment center covered in pictures of my husband and me from before the baby, just crying. It felt like I was looking at a literal memorial to our old life. That chapter was over. Everything was about to change. This new life was finally real. Excitement and grief can absolutely coexist.
2026-07-20 17:55:06
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itskatbasil✨ :
Mourning the old version of you is hard 😭😭 she’s still inside you and you’re so grateful for her but the goodbye comes so fast!!
2026-07-20 15:45:52
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M I L I T A ✨ :
100%! I miss my husband, even though i see him everyday its just not the same. Its all about the baby, all the time. We know its just a phase of life but we definitely miss just cuddling without asking who's changing the next diaper lol
2026-07-20 14:41:42
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liyahhh.shantell :
The changes your body goes through , it’s like who tf am I whenever I look in the mirror . It’s been somewhat hard to truly embrace being pregnant bc I’ve never seen my body change so much . My NIPPLES MY POOR NIPPLES OMGGG 😭
2026-07-21 20:15:46
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splatterslasher85 :
it feels so validating reading these comments cause I'm truly not ready to give up "Just me and my husband" .. I'm excited for my twins but .. it's so hard and bittersweet.
2026-07-21 13:18:25
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em_ily_irwin :
Yesss! My pregnancy was 100% planned and I often find myself mourning what my life was and how different it will be
2026-07-22 00:49:54
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big lex :
Knowing ur life will never be the same IS exciting and terrifying at the same time
2026-07-24 05:47:56
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ItlnOptician :
My favorite comment is “well you did this to yourself” it’s like yeah I know but I can still feel this way.
2026-07-21 23:57:44
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kairound2 :
Oh we’re constantly talking about how much pregnancy sucks in our house. Our first is due August 12th and we’re just trying to make sure my wife makes it through in one piece, at this point.
2026-07-21 16:38:35
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madelynrosexo :
The hardest part for me was grieving the me I THOUGHT I’d become before having kids, little did I know this is what I was meant to be the whole time
2026-07-20 17:41:38
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Sammietee 🇨🇦🇨🇦 :
I felt so guilty after my baby shower when everyone was saying “you must be so excited “ and I felt like I was lying to them. Excited isn’t the first emotion I feel right now. It’s there but not the first one.
2026-07-21 20:57:19
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J.M. :
For me, it was also the realization that it would no longer just be the two of us (my husband and I), and for many years it was just us. That is what I was grieving when my baby first arrived.
2026-07-24 11:28:03
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Courtney K✨📚 :
I actually don’t feel grief right now at 15 weeks but I do have a sense of impending doom over having a 24/7 responsibility for years. Like I’m okay with life and the way we do things being different. What’s stressing me out is thinking we won’t be able to relax or rot ever. There’s always going to be a task to do for them. And it’s only going to get more demanding until they’re like over 13 if we’re good parents. Life is hard enough with work pets and bills lol. That is what’s really getting to me
2026-07-21 16:55:22
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Sidney Deems :
Grieving the life I had while also being excited I’m entering a new phase of life. I did a lot in my 20’s but I know that we are also ready to start our family. Just sad I can’t be as carefree as I was. It’s a change and change is hard.
2026-07-21 15:56:53
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