I told one I wanted to take my bath the next thing he said was “wash my things well oo” Omo I just cut him off😒
2026-07-21 16:54:16
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_livingastemi :
Suddenly you can’t find men in the comments.
2026-07-21 19:18:52
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JELLA ᥫ᭡ :
If you read the very first line of my post, you’ll notice I said “Men can also…” The keyword there is “also”. It doesn’t mean women don’t have their own issues. They absolutely do. I can only speak from my experience as a woman.
Now, here’s my actual point.
A lot of men in my comment section keep saying, “Women only care about money.”
I’m not denying that some women do. Those women exist.
But let’s remove money from the equation for a second.
If money wasn’t a factor, what else do you genuinely bring to the table?
Can you hold an intelligent conversation?
Can you communicate when things get difficult?
Do you have emotional intelligence?
Can you make your partner feel emotionally safe?
Are you kind? Are you thoughtful? Are you intentional? Do you check in on her..not because she asked, but because you genuinely care?
Being a provider is valuable. No one is taking that away at all. But a healthy relationship needs more than financial provision.
Most women today also work, earn money, build businesses, and support themselves. what makes you a good partner beyond your income?
That’s the conversation I’m trying to have.
Because money can build a house.
It can’t replace character, communication, emotional maturity, or genuine connection. This post is not just about money, it’s about character.
2026-07-21 22:02:13
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mimi :
I met a guy today, the next thing come over let’s chill, one day someone will die in your house, the connection was not there at all
2026-07-22 16:42:47
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𝓔𝓵𝓵𝓪𝓫𝓪𝓫𝔂🦋😘 :
ladies if any man asks you what you bring to the table ask him what he brings as well
2026-07-22 11:50:51
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Treasure🍒💋ྀི :
I think men left the chat 💬
2026-07-21 16:25:45
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ABEKE👸👑 :
All they have to say is....Hello....How are you doing....How was ur night....
They can't keep an intelligent conversation going without ok or kk😏
2026-07-21 13:21:30
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𝓑𝓲𝓰𝓰 𝓒𝓻𝓲𝓼𝓼𝓼𝓼🧸🤎 :
Omg I’m a man too and you said everything well! My gender thinks everything is about sex and nudity😔..like can you just hold a responsible conversation with the other gender??? Huh😞💔
2026-07-22 17:29:26
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candy_is _pretty_asf✨🧸 :
They're not ready for this conversation! 😫🥲
2026-07-21 10:42:08
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Ms. Praise🌸✨ :
Most men left the chat !!!!! 🤦🏼♀️
2026-07-22 15:25:35
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ԃαɳɳყ🎮🎭 :
This works both ways lol 😂. There are plenty of women who can’t hold meaningful conversations either. Some reply with “lol”, “okay”, “wyd”, expect you to carry the whole chat, show no interest in your goals, judge a man by his wallet, play mind games, and still expect deep conversations. It’s about the individual, not the gender.
2026-07-22 17:22:15
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DŸCE🥷💕 :
Men with all those qualities many buh they no Dey ever be una spec especially when dey no sabi press money lol
2026-07-22 13:18:50
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Felicity Rejoice🥰 :
“Hey, how are you “ “wyd” every time
2026-07-21 20:00:29
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⃟ :
One question…without money what’s the purpose of life?
2026-07-21 20:04:34
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SHOT BY ROCKBLESS ❤️📸⚽️ :
Y’all always have a point … but you’ll ignore how you guys communicate if a guy is not sending money …
2026-07-21 17:11:55
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Dfww mercy____ :
U guys dont talk about the fact that ladies in our generation have made it seem like the only thing men re to offer is Money ” just have the money “u don’t make them realize their intelligence is needed
2026-07-21 19:14:05
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