@kolin_cga2: Cleansing your social media (both partners should feel safe, respected, and accountable, not expected to endlessly "handle" each other's unhealthy behavior)

poochitaa :

finally! someone who understands our side 🙃

erl' :

hirap i repost baka ma-misunderstood niya :((

Mellow. :

I hate to admit it but I am this type of person, even now. I am actually aware that I would hurt him, I would say words that will literally make him and me cry. And I don't have anyone to blame but myself because I have so much rage and loathing inside. And I am actually so embarrassed na by how patient he is to me, how much assurance he would give whenever I go into one of my episodes. I've been doing my best in managing my emotions, (one thing my parents never taught me). Because I actually don't want to hurt him anymore, it's just that, it's hard to do it. Especially when you're still living in a bad and toxic environment. But I pray that this man will have more patience to handle me until I can finally manage myself, I'm trying my very best, and I hope he'll still be there when I get better.

francestannn :

de :

dito ko nalang repost

renee 🎀 :

I LOOOVE YOUR CONTENT GIRLIE! It breaks the “social media standard” with reality checks. 🥺

-ADMiRAL :

Thank you for breaking the social media standards Queen.

MangoMelody 🥭 :

Inintindi ko naman. Ako lang din naubos. HAHAHAHAHA

jeremiah🐌 :

She just left me this july 15 dahil daw pagod na sya i tolerate mga mali saakin without knowing na napagod din ako, hindi nya manlang hinintay na matapos birthday ko this july 26:<

K :

THIS!!

jann :

silent repost nlang talaga

miyamurajhay :

its always the "edi dun ka sa maayos" but never the "edi aayusin ko para we're still together"

yuan X el shadow :

here you go for those who can't repost

prince✿༽ :

agree naman ako, kaso marami akong pagkukulang e kaya sguro siya nagka ganon.

𝐕 :

Creamchiz :

and I have an attitude when the assurance and emotional support don't match.

Xtzenduro :

Yung mapapa sabi kana lang na, " Love tao Rin ako"

D🐨m :

I AM SO GRATEFUL FOR HAVING A MATURE AND UNDERSTANDING GIRLFRIEND😭😭😭🙏🏼

goy :

me sa boyfriend nito.

qutie_piee :

he reposted it. aminado naman ako na may mali ako. sya nga kinumpara estado ng buhay namin(i know humor lng nya yon), di nya need ipamukha na di kami kasing pantay nila. may narinig ba sya? wala. some of humor have limitations di natin namamalayan nakakasakit na pala tayo.

raraa :

i feel really bad for my boyfriend, guess im not ready for being someone’s girlfriend.. he could have found someone better than me, he deserves it

🦋 :

I agree. As a girl, never talaga akong nang-away ng partner. Nagkakilala kami online. Akala niya before mataray ako and may tendency na mang-away ng partner kasi. Hahahaha. Pero nagugulat siya ngayon kasi never ko raw siyang inaway at never nagmaldita sa kanya. Hahahaha. Well, I always make sure na kung ano pinapakita niyang maganda sa'kin, ibinabalik ko rin sa kanya kasi deserve niya 'yun. Kahit na lalaki sila, deserve pa rin nila ang gentleness. If may problema kami, lagi kaming maayos na nag-uusap, and that explains why never pa kaming nag-away and we are turning 3 na sa October. We are just so gentle with each other. So lucky to have him. Kami ang patunay na relationship will work kahit both of you are NBSB/NGSB. Hahahaha

Seeijuroo :

protect this woman at all cost!

shethe🍒 :

I agree that in a relationship, a boyfriend’s emotions and feelings matter too. It shouldn’t always be about the girl being understood, adjusted to, or treated gently while the man is expected to simply adjust all the time. Both people deserve the same consideration, understanding, and respect. I’ve learned this through my own relationship. My boyfriend never had to tell me directly that I was wrong or that I needed to change. Through the way he treated me and the way he responded to certain situations, he made me realize things about myself that I needed to work on. I realized that being a woman doesn’t mean a man should always be the one to adjust. We also need to be accountable for our own toxic traits, mistakes, and unhealthy behaviors. Love is not about having someone constantly adjust to us just because we are the girl. I believe in treating my boyfriend with the same respect, patience, understanding, and effort that I expect from him. There is no superior or inferior in our relationship. It’s not me versus him, it’s both of us learning, adjusting, and growing together. Some of my old ideas about relationships changed along the way. What I once thought was “ideal” was replaced by something more realistic, mature, and healthy. And honestly, I’m grateful for that growth. Sometimes, the healthiest relationship is the one that teaches you that love isn’t just about being treated right, it’s also about learning how to treat someone right. 🤍

Wilab_ :

bilang lng talaga mga babae nakakaintindi samen salamat may natitira pa