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MBB :
Yup...after watching my mother and all of her friends trapped in a marriage because they had no way to leave... I'm VERY glad I have my own career and safety net so I can leave if I ever need to.
2026-07-20 16:30:16
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nixie_gold :
Feminism is the biggest lie that we fell for.
2026-07-20 16:15:53
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Megan Freitas :
Yeah. They sold us a lie, now we’re stuck doing it all, struggling mentally, and aching for a softer life. ❤️🩹
2026-07-20 16:30:43
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Wallis Windsor :
If he can feed you, he can starve you
2026-07-22 00:18:59
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Anonymous :
It’s ok to be a SAHM BUT always have a paid skill and your own money. Men will always put themselves over wives and children in an instant. See it daily in family court. It’s heart breaking.
2026-07-20 21:19:53
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Shawnah Joyce :
I’m a SAHM. My husband chokes every month paying those loans. Got my education in my back pocket though, in case I ever decide to become a teacher and make a whopping $400 or so a week.
2026-07-21 01:31:39
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The Curious Idiot :
In 20 years it’ll make sense.
2026-07-22 08:42:44
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Jk :
Better than being left homeless with no work experience
2026-07-21 00:18:15
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King, Binx, and Tato :
Eh! Then you’re screwed if he leaves you or dies without proper insurance. I’d rather have the comfort of knowing I can do it myself. It’s a damned if you do or damned if you don’t situation.
2026-07-20 20:06:33
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User123456129 :
My husband was injured and unable to work. I was a SAHM. I have a masters degree and was able to find work within the week. It was a good job that kept our lifestyle exactly the same. So thankful I have that
2026-07-21 17:25:52
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e.star95 :
This was the message I received from my mother. She was a sahm, my dad cheated on her and left her with nothing. What I heard was “learn from my mistakes.” I’ll be damned if I’m going to give any other person that much power over my quality of life.
2026-07-21 16:00:09
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user5805510874474 :
If only was that simple…
2026-07-20 20:38:52
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Mel79 :
Honestly, about half the time the man is going to ditch you anyway. Leaving you with your kids still in daycare anyway- but now you have a career gap & lower paying job (and often- less flexibility that you might’ve had otherwise). Better to just never stop working. Take it from me (one who made the wrong choice). I will advise my daughter not to do the same.
2026-07-22 01:12:55
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Tiffany :
I’ve never met a man that can provide a better life for me than I can for myself. But if I ever do, I’m hanging up my hat.
2026-07-21 14:16:13
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Ellison :
I saw through it 20 years ago. So grateful I chose my kids
2026-07-20 21:06:41
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L3X :
and we can't afford to live on our own if something happens
2026-07-21 19:22:52
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Angel :
A M E N. I really regret being the bread maker sometimes. Actually, all of the time 😭 You’re not alone girl!
2026-07-20 19:56:40
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Raquel Crowell :
& the worst part is I ended up marrying a man who has more than enough to take care of us… but I just can’t let it go.
2026-07-20 16:53:19
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Ashly Nicole Diemer :
Hate it. Bread winner here. But my daughter is currently set to retire with more money than I will and she is 1, plus she will inherit everything. I don’t want her to work unless she wants to.
2026-07-20 20:07:04
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Afton | Mom of 3 ✨ :
My mom always said marry a rich man. Didn’t listen and look at me now 😅
2026-07-21 00:02:11
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Penelope2026 :
Definitely sold a lie!!!
2026-07-20 21:38:36
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Mel mommy2 :
Hey so I got scholarships, went to a community college, then stayed home and finished my degree all while working and paying as I went. Got my degree with zero debt. My husband went to trade school. I’m not here to bash anyone just letting you know there are other options.
2026-07-21 01:30:06
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liz_rubio_1111 :
I feel seen with this post! ❤️
2026-07-20 16:47:26
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⋆Hey Zoomies⋆ :
Cuz most of those men trade in their wives for a younger version, leaving the first wife with zero money and employment history... We watched the women get left behind, be abused, be disrespected and left without options. Even if working blows and as much as I'd like to depend on my husband, I need to be smart and protect myself in case it all blows up in my face
2026-07-22 15:27:45
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Mr.Yeti :
We are living in a matrix
2026-07-20 22:26:19
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